• Sex Advice: Why you should love your vibrator

    Why you should love your vibrator

    Women's bodies are complicated - it's no wonder most men don't know what to do with us, we're often not sure how it all works ourselves!


    Most women have their first orgasm after hours of masturbating and trying this, that and the other technique. It's hard work. Even when we do know how to have one, we have to really concentrate to get there. If the dog walks in, that's it. All over thanks to Rover.

    But here's the thing... most women can orgasm using a vibrator and once you've had one at least you know what to aim for. Plus it answers the 'How will I know when I've had an orgasm?' question once and for all. Like, let's face it, you've got about as much chance of missing an orgasm than you have not noticing Angelina Jolie and Brad Pitt are sitting in your lounge room. But until you've had one, you don't know that.

    Using a vibrator regularly is one of the best things you can do for your sex life. The more orgasms you have, the more your body wants and there's no quicker way to have one than with a vibrator.

    t's not a sign of desperation to own a vibrator. It's a sign of having a rich, full sex life. And it keeps you looking good as well. Masturbating releases tension, improves circulation and makes our skin glow. It's like a vitamin pill except a lot more fun!

    Vibrators empower women. The fact is, we're all sleeping with more people these days - even the 'nice girls'. A recent reputable sex survey - published in The Lancet medical journal - showed not only are women having more partners but more than one relationship at a time. One in seven men and one in 11 women are involved in more than one sexual relationship at a time which also means sexually transmitted infections are soaring as well. Cases of gonorrhoea, syphillis and chlamydia have more than doubled in last five years.

    Women have discovered their sex drives alright, and, like men, we're not much good at controlling them either - hence the bits on the side and one night stands and resulting infections.

    Women get as sexually frustrated as men do and we're just as likely to go out there on a Friday night, have one too many wines and end up in bed with a stranger - one who might well pass on something nasty or turn out to be nasty.

    Now, if you're a girl who's got a great vibrator waiting at home you're far more likely NOT to drag any old bloke home with you. Not only can you satisfy your needs at the end of the night, you're not going out on the pull feeling sexually frustrated in the first place, because chances are you've kept your orgasm quota nicely topped up with your vibrator.

    Vibrator orgasms are quick and easy. It's join-the-dots stuff. You can have an orgasm in the time it takes to make a cup of tea. If you know you can go home and satisfy your own needs with zero effort, why would you want some stranger snoring in your bed?

    Vibrators aren't something to be ashamed of, they're something to be proud of owning. It shows you're taking charge of your own sexuality and choosing partners for the right reasons, not because you're climbing the walls dying for a bit.

    Heat up your sex life

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