• Sex Advice: Bigger, better orgasms - how to use a vibrator

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    Get yourself in the mood by reading an erotic book, watching a naughty film or lying back and fantasising - and then try these tips...


    General techniques

    Vibrators aren't just for genitals. Glide it over and under your breasts, on the soft inner thigh, over knotted shoulders and backs. Move it around to include the anus and perineum (the smooth, hairless bit between your vagina and anus or scrotum and anus).

    Try different positions

    Lying on top of the vibrator instead of holding it on top of you, for instance. Increase the sensation by pressing your hand on your abdomen just as you're about to climax.

    Vary the speed and pressure

    Stop and start, tease yourself. Use it directly on your most sensitive parts, or if that feels too intense, tease around the sides. If the vibration feels too high or you're particularly sensitive, put a T-shirt or towel between it and you.

    Techniques for him

    Use it on the perenium (the smooth bit between his scrotum and bottom), the testicles or hold it against the side of her mouth during oral sex. Press a wand shaped vibrator (the Supersex Pleasure Vibe) directly against the base of the penis, running it along the shaft and up and over the head. If that's too intense, hold the vibrator against the back of your hand while masturbating.

    Supersex Mini Rabbit Vibe

    Supersex Rabbit Vibe

    If you want to insert the Supersex Rabbit, use lubricant then sit or lie down, holding it firmly at the base before penetrating.

    Or hold it firmly at the base and lower yourself on top - the positions are as varied as they are for intercourse. Since clitoral stimulation is usually necessary to orgasm, you'll want to turn on the clitoral stimulator or use a second vibrator or your hands to work on that part.

    Supersex Pleasure Wand 

    Supersex WandSolo

    Press the vibe firmly against the closed labia (lips of the vagina), directly above the clitoris, holding it still, rolling it or moving it in a circular motion.

    Try using the Supersex Pleasure Wand standing or sitting with your legs apart, lying down or kneeling on the floor and squatting over it. Another technique is to stand with your legs apart, hold the vibrator still in front of your genitals, and move backward and forward, grinding against it.

    With Your Partner

    The Pleasure Vibe is the perfect size, shape and weight to stimulate the clitoris during intercourse so you can orgasm while he is inside you. It's big enough not to get knocked but not so bulky it gets in the way. It's also ideal for stimulating the rim of the anus which is packed with nerve endings in both sexes.

    The Pleasure Vibe can be inserted anally, but use a lot of lubrication and prepare the anus for penetration by massaging with a finger first. Never insert anything anally without first discussing it with your partner.

    Heat up your sex life

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