• "My girlfriend wants to use a strap-on dildo on me. What pleasure will I get?"

    Question:

    My girlfriend has been reading girlie magazines and after reading one article has said that she would like to "do me".

    I asked her what she meant and she clarified that she wants to buy a strap-on dildo and show me how it feels on her end. She'd also like me to use a 'butt plug' during sex.

    I can't figure out what (if any) satisfaction I would receive - other than the obvious fact of pleasing my girlfriend. The thought of something going in my rear end does disturb me rather.


    Answer:

    You won't be the first guy to be perturbed at the thought of her wanting to go 'there'. But there are reasons why you should at least give it a go.

    The male G-spot - the prostate gland - is inside your rectum and once you get used to it being stimulated, it can deliver explosive orgasms like nothing you've ever experienced.

    Try the butt plug first, to find out if you like anal play. You might not, in which case, just tell your girlfriend you gave it a go but it wasn't your cup of tea.

    Most people don't mind their partner saying no, so long as they at least give it a try. Just ask her what else she'd like to experiment with - she sounds adventurous, I'm sure it's not the only thing on her list!

    OK, here's a good action plan for your first time with a butt plug: Once you're aroused, get her to apply lube to you or the vibe (or both) and run it around the rim of your anus.

    She should very gently press and see if the anus 'pulls' the toy in. If it doesn't, she should press gently until the toy's inserted a little way. Even if it's 'pulled' in, get her to penetrate slowly, stopping to let you get accustomed to something inside you.

    Then simply leave it there once it's in position and continue as normal. By the way, if you do enjoy it, it doesn't mean you're gay. Lots of straight men enjoy anal stimulation!

    Tracey Cox Dare - What Happens When Fantasies Come True

    Comments (4)

    • Violet Ivy: August 02, 2013 11:16
      I am reading more and more blogs like this one. Guys are discovering the joys of the anal cavity. Get over your homophobic fears and try it at least once. Gentle is the rule and plenty of lube! You could discover a whole world of pleasure you never knew existed. I've taken the anal virginity of literally hundreds of men. They all love it.
      Violet Ivy
      Author
      Lucky Girl - How I Survived the Sex Industry
    • Handsome Jack: May 05, 2014 22:42
      Would you like to take mine aswell Violet? ;)
    • greg coles: August 22, 2016 09:54
      you turn me on with your thinking,
    • greg coles: August 22, 2016 09:57
      well here goes again, you are some kind of sexual being.Damn you get to me.
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