• "I worry that my penis isn't big enough for my wife. Any advice?"

    Question:

    I know you probably hear this all the time, but I'm worried I'm not big enough for my wife. I am five and a half inches.

    She says it's OK but I keep thinking she needs more. What do you think? I love her so much and want to make her happy.


    Answer:

    Sweetie, I want you to print out my answer and stick it somewhere you will look at it every day (though possibly not on your desk at work).

    Men are the ones obsessed with penis size, not women and your penis is not actually small, it's average (the average length when erect is between 5.1 and 6 inches).

    Add to this that nearly all the nerve endings are in the first inch or so of the vagina and that most women don't orgasm through penetration, and you'd realise the skill and dexterity of your tongue and fingers is actually far more crucial to her satisfaction.

    Women don't fall in love with men's penises (even if the odd very pretty one does inspire a crush!), they fall in love with the man they're attached to.

    Stop worrying and stop thinking porn penises are the norm. I suspect that's where this has all come from.

    Fix your love life fast

    Comments (1)

    • ANDREW: October 23, 2008 19:58
      HI TRACEY,
      AS WIV ALL RELATIONSHIPS SEX WHERE'S OFF, ME & MY PARTNER HAVE BEEN TOGETHER 4 9MONTHS & SHE HAS ALWAYS GOT ESCUISES 4 NOT HAVING SEX, MOSTLY 2 TIRED, NOT IN THE MOOD, 2 LATE, WHEN WE'M IN BED SHE DON'T LIKE ME CUDDLING HER HAS SHE SAY'S I'M 2 WARM, WHEN I TURN OVER 2 GO 2 SLEEP I THINK SHE PLAY'S WIV HERSELF AS THE BED IS ALWAYS ROCKING, WOT SHOULD I DO? ANY TIPS
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