• Sex Advice: Vibrate with pleasure - sex toy tips for him and her

    Vibrate with Pleasure - Sex Toy Tips for Him and Her

    Vibrators are terrific if she's horny and you're not, or you both fancy an orgasm but don't have the time or energy for anything that requires effort.


    So don't leave it shoved in the back of the drawer, rescued only when he's gone to the football and you've got the house to yourself! Vibrators are the zero-effort, quick and convenient way to orgasm if you're both tired or don't have much time.

    For Him

    Apply it to knotted, aching shoulders and the cheeks of his bottom before moving down to concentrate on the perineum - the area between his anus and testicles. Let him get used to the feeling before trying it out (on a low speed) on his testicles (cup them in one hand) and the opening of his anus. Depending on what sort of vibrator you have, you might like to insert it inside his rectum (definitely ask if the idea appeals first, though, and use tone of lubricant!), while giving him oral sex or masturbating him with your hands.

    For Her

    Again, use it on her shoulders, back and feet before moving to the obvious. Contrary to what the porn industry would have us believe, most women don't insert vibrators, but hold them firmly against the closed labia, sometimes massaging in small circles or using a press-then-lift motion, while applying varying pressure. She knows how she likes it so it's a good idea to let her show you how it's done. After that, it's a weapon in your hands as you buzz, tease and take her right to the brink... then back again!

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