• "My partner and I live miles apart and he wants phone sex. Do you have any tips?"

    Question:

    My partner and I live 167 miles apart and he wants phone sex. I don't mind listening to him talk dirty to me and find it quite a turn on but I find it difficult to talk back to him. Do you have any tips?


    Answer:

    You could try telling him a fantasy of yours. Or 'cheat' by grabbing a copy of a lad's mag and reading out a raunchy reader letter.

    If you want to give it a go without 'cheating', keep it simple. Simply describe what you wish he was doing to you. 'I wish you had your hands on my breasts'. Add what that would make you feel like. '...and it feels wonderful'.

    Then describe what you'd like to do to him. 'I'd take your penis in my mouth and suck it'. Add what that would make you feel, '...and it makes me feel powerful. Like you're in my control'. Get the drift?

    When you're feeling more confident, add in 'Do you like that?', 'What does it feel like?', 'Do you want more?', 'What would you like me to do to you now. I'll do anything....'.

    Let him know where you're at arousal wise. 'Ummm, this is starting to feel really nice' or 'God, I'm so close to coming'.

    Tracey Cox Dare - What Happens When Fantasies Come True

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