"Is it normal to get wet whenever I fantasise about a certain guy that I know?"
I want to know if it is normal to get wet whenever I fantasise about a certain guy that I know?
I'm also a bit nervous that when we're going to have sex for the first time I get all excited and wet, which is somehow embarrassing for me. Is there any way to control this excessive wetness?
This isn't a problem, it's a compliment to him! Of course it's normal to feel aroused when thinking of making love with someone you fancy like mad for the first time!
And part of the arousal process is lubrication: your vagina is simply getting ready for him to penetrate you. Far from being put off by 'excessive wetness', he's likely to be thrilled you're so excited by him.
If it really is so excessive that it will interfere with friction, simply wipe some of it away with a tissue. Again, don't be embarrassed if you need to do this. I guarantee it will be a turn-on rather than a turn-off for him.