"My husband has a high sex drive but I've lost interest. What should I do?"
My husband has a high sex drive, but I’ve lost interest over time. I’m sick of him hassling me but I also want him to be satisfied and I don’t like saying no all the time!
It’s usual for your sex drive to fall over time in a long-term relationship, but it’s also possible to kick-start things. Start by compromising. He decides on the least amount of sex per fortnight he’d be happy with; you decide on the most often you’d be willing to do it.
Then you choose the number in the middle of the two. Do it even if you’re not madly keen - having sex boosts your sex drive to make you want more. Also remember that sex doesn’t always mean intercourse, just some type of sexy encounter.