"My girlfriend has a sexual fantasy surrounding impregnation. Have you heard of this before?"
My girlfriend told me months ago about a sexual fantasy she has which revolves around impregnation.
We do a lot of role-play anyway but I was wondering how I could spice up the pregnancy aspect of the fantasy. Have you ever encountered this before and do you have any tips?
Actually getting her pregnant is not what I want – and neither does she. We take plenty of precautions.
I have to say I’ve heard many sexual fantasies and have never heard of this one. I’ve certainly heard of it as a real life dream but never in a sexual context, though that’s not to say there’s anything wrong with it.
You don’t give any details about the fantasy and what it involves so I’m simply left with a scenario that she’s turned on by the thought of sex that might result in a baby.
What aspect of it turns her on? Is she searching for a deep, intimate connection? Or is it more that it’s so lusty and passionate and your ‘seed’ so powerful, her body can’t help but be fertilized?
Ask her to give you three adjectives of why it turns her on so you can isolate exactly what elements of the fantasy do it for her. That’s your guide for how to make it more intense. If she likes it because it’s soulful sex, do lots of holding her face as you kiss her and deep, searching eye contact.
If it’s the primitiveness of the act, make it lustier. I can’t help but wonder. though, why this particular fantasy does it for her. You say you’re taking precautions but is there a part of her that wishes you weren’t?