• Top 5 Hand-Job Techniques for Him

    After 15 books and more than 20 years of writing about sex, I've found certain techniques continually top the "That was bloody fabulous!" list! Why not take it in turns - this week, it's his turn; next week it's hers! Here are my top 5 tips for hand-jobs that he'll love...


    Essential ingredients:

    • Good quality lube: A hand-job without it is like a roast without the gravy.
    • A male masturbatory sleeve like my supersex stroker or supertight stroker. This slips over his erect penis to make techniques 1 and 5 feel even better.
    • Patience and the right attitude: Let him know this is a gift from you to him. He can take as little or long as he likes* and he doesn’t need to reciprocate (next week it's your turn, remember!).

      *If you started on Friday and it’s Sunday already, slip on a stroker or tighten your grip and up the speed to finish him off!

    Annabelle

    The techniques:

    1. The Classic: This involves wrapping one or two fingers around the shaft of the penis and manipulating the foreskin, so it moves up and down with each stroke. This is a join-the-dots hand-job but there’s a knack to getting it just right. You need to place your fingers exactly where he does at the starting position (ask him to show you how he masturbates).

    2. The Favourite: There’s a reason why this one is in nearly every sex book - men love it! Hold your right hand horizontally in front of you, the back of your hand facing you, elbow cocked. Maintaining this position, hold the base of his penis: the back of your hand and four fingers are on the side of the penis facing you and your thumb is on the side facing him.

    Slide slowly up the shaft in a firm, continuous movement and when you reach the part where the shaft meets the head, slightly twist your hand. Then, keeping your palm as close to the head as possible, twist your wrist to pass your palm over the top of his penis and down the other side. Once you reach the base, slide it back over (in reverse) into the starting position. Repeat with your left hand and keep alternating. (It sounds terribly complicated explaining it but doing it is a cinch. Really!).

    3. Spanish Style: Put some lubricant between your breasts, push them together to make a pretend vagina and let him thrust between them. It seems wickedly disrespectful for him to be aiming his lethal part straight at your face (always a good thing in sex, I find!). Annabelle

    4. The Twist: Wrap one hand around the shaft near the base of the penis to hold it still, pull the foreskin taut, and wrap the other around the head. Now, twist the top hand firmly, return, then twist again, turning it into a continuous motion, slowing down or building up speed depending on his response. The trick here is in the positioning: your thumb should be on the frenulum (the super-sensitive stringy bit under the ridge where the head meets the shaft).

    5. Finger Lock: Clasp your hands and interlock your fingers, overlapping your thumbs, but leaving room for his penis to slip in the middle. Lower your hands over his penis, close your thumbs to take a firm hold, then slide your clasped hands up and down, twisting gently as you do.

    Want a book that gives lots of technique-based, practical information? Supersex, Sextasy, Hot Sex and superhotsex are the best choices.

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