• Top 5 Hand-Job Techniques For Her

    Men complain that women give rubbish hand-jobs, women complain he's way too rough. Confused as to what she really wants? Here's the top five hand-jobs consistently voted the most popular by her:


    Essential ingredients:

    • Good quality lube: It's fine to dip your fingers in and out of her vagina to keep things moist. But lots of things affect how naturally lubricated she is (stress, where she's at in her cycle, if she's hungover and dehydrated) and adding lube makes it way more comfortable.
    • Time: It's crucial to keep your movements gentle, consistent and rhythmic, but the absolutely essential ingredient is a willingness to settle in and let her take her time to orgasm.
    • A vibrator: Sometimes, too much direct stimulation with your fingers can make her over-sensitive. If this happens, grab her favourite vibe and finish her off that way.

    Annabelle

    The techniques:

    1. The Classic: Place your palm over her pubic hair and bend your middle finger so it's angled ready to touch her clitoris, resting on the inner lips. Position your index and ring fingers so they're resting on the outer lips. Then use your middle finger to gently rub the clitoris up and down or in circles, maintaining a slow, steady rhythm. Squeeze the other two fingers to push the outer lips together and provide extra pressure.

    Another popular variation of the classic is to dip a finger inside her, then slowly slide it along the inner lips of the vagina, moving up toward the clitoris. Let your whole finger roll against the clitoris, then move back down to repeat. Don't touch the clitoris directly the first time, work on the sides or manipulate the clitoral hood as a buffer.

    2. The Wall: Put two fingers inside her vagina, then curl them upward so you're pressing against the front wall (as though you're aiming for her stomach). Massage this top area, using firm pressure, and you're stimulating the 'inner clitoris' - the part which is hidden - and the uber-sensitive front vaginal wall.

    3. Scissors: Put your index and middle finger together, hold them stiff, so they're resting on the inner lips, then move them rapidly from side to side, using a small, GENTLE movement. Next, 'scissor' your fingers, kicking them in alternating directions. Again, keep the movement small or she'll hit the roof with pain, not pleasure. Annabelle

    4: The Clock: Imagine there's a clock dial surrounding the clitoris, then work your way around, spending five seconds in each hour position (one'o'clock, two'o'clock etc), making tiny circles with your fingertips. This ensures you don't over stimulate the clitoris, making it too sensitive, plus it gets you to concentrate on the edges rather than the centre (which most women prefer).

    5. The Roll: Use the clitoral hood (the fold of flesh protecting the clitoris) like you would a foreskin, moving it up and down rather than touching the clitoris directly. Using it as a buffer, roll it gently between your thumb and index finger to gently stimulate the clitoris. (If she prefers more direct stimulation, use the rolling motion directly on the clitoris.)

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    Comments (1)

    • Ab P: November 21, 2013 06:50
      is it normal for a 20 year old not get turned on easily now by her husband?
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