• How To Speed Up A Hand Job

    Supersex Stroker by Tracey Cox

    Not to sound like we don't like doing it (loads of women love the heady power of giving a hell of a hand job) BUT having to do it for what seems like hours on end isn't so much fun.

    Hand cramps and boredom fuel frustration and resentment rather than lust and passion - which is why it's good to know how to speed things up if things are heading in that direction. Here are my top tips:

    Don't do it when he's drunk

    Alcohol desensitizes all the nerve endings. (The reason why you wake up after a big night to find your vibrator on the maximum setting and television ear-blastingly loud).

    A morning hand job (assuming he didn't have a big one the night before) is almost guaranteed to take half as long as one delivered at 2am after a night out with the lads.


    Use lube - but not too much!

    Lube makes everything feel better so it's a great idea to use some. But don't use too much or there's no friction. If you've put too much on, simply wipe it off.

    Switch speeds

    It's a mistake to use harder, faster strokes initially, in a bid to speed things up. You'll not only wear yourself out faster and he'll become insensitive. Instead, start off softer and slower, then switch between speeds rather than simply getting firmer and faster.

    Use both hands

    This offers maximum stimulation. Use one hand around his penis, and the other alternating between teasing his testicles, pinching his nipples or pushing inside his mouth...

    Use a stroker

    Strokers are ingenious inventions: squidgy sleeves that slip over his penis to increase sensation which, of course, makes him likely to orgasm faster. Add lube inside the stroker, slide his erect penis inside, then move the whole sleeve up and down or hold the base and use your other hand to do it.

    Press hard between his legs

    Use the side of the whole of your hand and wedge it in between his legs, then apply pressure by pressing upwards. There's erectile tissue in the perineum as well (the bit between his testicles and anus).

    Add anal stimulation

    I wouldn't do this without his permission but I'd strongly suggest your start encouraging him to explore anal play if he takes a while to orgasm. It's where his prostate gland is and while some men feel a bit weird admitting to liking it - it's not just the 'will she think I'm gay?' thing, but just because bottoms are private, 'not talked about' zones for both sexes - most love it once they get past the initial embarrassment.

    Start by circling a well-lubricated finger around the opening to the anus and, when he's ready, insert one finger gently until it's fully inside. He may feel a little discomfort initially but once it's fully inserted, it should feel both comfortable... and rather nice. Use gentle stroking movements with your finger while using your other hand to continue to masturbate him. If he really likes it, try inserting a glass dildo.

    If he's suddenly taking forever and didn't used to

    Ask if he's on new medication. Some (like anti-depressants) don't just reduce desire but sensitivity too. Get him to ask his GP if there's an alternative.

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