• He Wants Me to Use My Vibrator in Front Of Him

    Tracey Cox Supersex Pleasure Wand Vibrator

    Q: My husband wants me to use a vibrator on myself in front of him. I don't mind him using it on me but it's still not the same or as good as using it solo.

    He says he wants to watch me play with myself with it but I think I'd be too self-conscious.

    A: Some women are totally comfortable using their trusty vibe with their partners watching, some aren't. It's just a 'thing' we women have.

    We're so used to having to hide it away for fear men will be threatened by them, it's weird having to pull it out of the drawer and show what we get up to when he's not around!

    Then there's the fact that most women orgasm within minutes with their vibrator and take - ahem - slightly longer with their partners.


    All this is probably going through your mind. But there are ways to progress from him using it on you to doing it yourself that are quite easy and embarrassment-free. Next time he uses it on you, put your hands on top of his. He'll instinctively pull his hands out so you're left holding it - and by then you're hopefully so turned on you continue the job.

    Make it even less embarrassing by:

    - Dimming the lights: You'll feel less self-conscious the first time if it's a bit dark. Sure, he might not get a great view but once you've done it a few times, you'll get more comfortable and you can turn the lights up.

    - Close your eyes: He can see you but it feels less invasive and more like the private 'treat' you're used to if you can't see him watching you. Book by Tracey Cox Hot Sex Sex Tips

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