• How to Be a Good Kisser

    Hot Sex by Tracey Cox

    • Practice on your palm: I’m dead serious. Your palm is sensitive enough to pick up on the different tongue techniques and you’ll get a good idea of what works and feels good and what doesn’t.
    • Snog their palm: The perfect kiss starts way before your lips lock with theirs. So start by taking their hand in yours and raise it to your mouth. Then look them straight in the eye and bury your tongue in their palm, swishing it around. Don’t tense your tongue, relax it, and use the entire surface rather than just the tip.
    • Now, hold their face in your hands: Tilt your head to one side, look them deep in the eyes, then close your eyes and start moving in toward them as s-s-s-s-l-o-w-l-y as you can.
    • Start soft: Keep your lips closed (but only just, not clamped tightly together), then cover all of their mouth with light, fluttery ‘angel’ kisses until you’ve left your mark on every millimetre. Kiss in the corners, above the top lip, below the bottom lip, all around their mouth.

    • Detour to the neck: Keep planting soft kisses across their face, then walk your lips down the neck until you reach the hollow. Once there, open you mouth wide and plant your lips. Make some slight suction to suck some flesh between your front teeth. Give a little nip/tug, then release.
    • Back up to the lips to nibble: Take their bottom lip and trap it between your teeth. Twist it slightly then use a nip-and-nibble, suck-and-tug motion. Do the same to the top lip. Nibble in the corners, to the side, dead centre.
    • Open your mouth:, lock lips and move into a traditional kissing motion. This bread-and-butter technique basically involves pressing your lips against theirs and moving your mouths. Think what a fish does with theirs and imitate. The easiest way to vary this kiss is through pressure. Contrast soft, gentle kisses with harder, passionate ones as you get more excited.
    • Use your tongue: Start by darting the tip in and out of their mouth, not too quickly and not too often. The absolute worst kissers tense their tongues until they turn into ironing boards, stick it in your mouth and then leave it in there. Instead, try moving the tip back and forth, then imitate a figure of eight.
    • Moan: Letting out even a tiny moan/sign/groan of pleasure while their mouth is on yours, ups the eroticism through the roof because it creates vibration and brings another sense into focus: sound.
    • Bite: - carefully You can get the sensation without having to leave lasting reminders of lust. Instead of sucking away like a Hoover, take a fold of flesh between your teeth and use your lips and mouth to create slight suction and sensation. Practise on your palm you’ll instantly feel/see the difference between doing this and rhythmic sucking, which is what leaves a mark.
    • Use your tongue: again to imitate the longed-for thrusts of your pelvises. Or wait until you are having intercourse and make your tongue a second penetration. It’s also useful to set the pace subliminally. (If you want him to thrust slower with his pelvis, thrust slower with your tongue. Speed things up by speeding your tongue movements up.)
    • How long should the perfect kiss last?Statistics show the average kiss lasts around three and a half minutes with only one in six of us claiming kisses of five minutes or more. Men are twice as likely to not mind if a kiss lasts less than a minute – and less likely to enjoy one that lasts five minutes or longer. (Unless it’s extraordinarily sensual – which, of course, yours will be after all this training!)
    • Back up to the lips to nibble: Take their bottom lip and trap it between your teeth. Twist it slightly then use a nip-and-nibble, suck-and-tug motion. Do the same to the top lip. Nibble in the corners, to the side, dead centre.
    • Open your mouth:, lock lips and move into a traditional kissing motion. This bread-and-butter technique basically involves pressing your lips against theirs and moving your mouths. Think what a fish does with theirs and imitate. The easiest way to vary this kiss is through pressure. Contrast soft, gentle kisses with harder, passionate ones as you get more excited.
    • Use your tongue: Start by darting the tip in and out of their mouth, not too quickly and not too often. The absolute worst kissers tense their tongues until they turn into ironing boards, stick it in your mouth and then leave it in there. Instead, try moving the tip back and forth, then imitate a figure of eight.
    • Moan: Letting out even a tiny moan/sign/groan of pleasure while their mouth is on yours, ups the eroticism through the roof because it creates vibration and brings another sense into focus: sound.
    • Bite: - carefully You can get the sensation without having to leave lasting reminders of lust. Instead of sucking away like a Hoover, take a fold of flesh between your teeth and use your lips and mouth to create slight suction and sensation. Practise on your palm you’ll instantly feel/see the difference between doing this and rhythmic sucking, which is what leaves a mark.
    • Use your tongue: again to imitate the longed-for thrusts of your pelvises. Or wait until you are having intercourse and make your tongue a second penetration. It’s also useful to set the pace subliminally. (If you want him to thrust slower with his pelvis, thrust slower with your tongue. Speed things up by speeding your tongue movements up.)
    • How long should the perfect kiss last? Statistics show the average kiss lasts around three and a half minutes with only one in six of us claiming kisses of five minutes or more. Men are twice as likely to not mind if a kiss lasts less than a minute – and less likely to enjoy one that lasts five minutes or longer. (Unless it’s extraordinarily sensual – which, of course, yours will be after all this training!)
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    Comments (1)

    • Darcy: November 20, 2014 17:07
      Read thru the article and I can confirm I am a great kisser!!!!
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