• Great bondage props to make like Christian Grey

    Beginner's Bondage Kit Tracey Cox

    You read last week’s ‘Bondage for beginners’ blog post, gave it a bash and are now keen enthusiasts? Here’s a guide to some suitable props to make it even more exciting! Remember to take turns with who gets to be the dominant and passive person, especially appealing now you’re in charge of all these deliciously naughty toys…

    This is my list of the toys that work best with B & D:

    • A blindfold takes away eye contact and any potential embarrassment; by removing one sense, you heighten others.
    • Leather wrist cuffs do all the hard work for you. They usually attach with Velcro, then attach the clips to each other (to bind both wrists or ankles) or something else (like a rope or convenient part of the bed).
    • Riding crops, whips, spanking paddles go with tie-up games like bacon and eggs. A light spanking while they’re at your mercy is just the thing! Try one that makes menacing noises but stings rather than hurts. (You can progress to more threatening devices later!)

    • Feather ticklers can be bought or improvised by tying anything smooth but ticklish onto a chopstick.
    • Vibrators are perfect to use on him or her to tease the nipples, perineum, anus, clitoris, testicles.
    • Glass dildos are perfect for teasing and stimulating vaginally, anally, or heating up/cooling down and rubbing over thighs, breasts, anywhere sensitive.
    • Anal toys Because anal sex still has the ‘forbidden’ element for many couples, being ‘forced’ to explore this area - packed with sensation-seeking nerve endings - takes away the embarrassment of admitting you’d actually quite like to give it a whirl. (Always ask first, though.) Try a butt plug, silicone beads or vibrating anal 'explorers'
    • Kegel balls featured heavily in the Fifty Shades of Grey novel. Insert high into the vagina while she’s restrained to add more erotic edge to the ‘I’m in charge of your pleasure’ vibe that B & D creates.
    • Remote control toys of any kind are brilliant tease toys. He can insert a remote control love egg and reduce her to begging for him to turn it back on if he playfully turns it off just when she’s about to...
    • DIY B&D Strapped for cash? Do like Christian Grey did - visit your local hardware store to stock up on pegs (to clamp onto nipples), rope and cable ties (to fasten around tied wrists).

    If you enjoyed this post, also check out: Simple tips for getting into bondage

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