• After 15 books and more than 20 years of writing about sex, I've found certain techniques continually top the "That was bloody fabulous!" list! Why not take it in turns - this week, it's his turn; next week it's hers! Here are my top 5 tips for hand-jobs that he'll love...

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    I’m going to have sex with my boyfriend for the first time next weekend and want to make him feel welcome and for it to be special but not for it to be really obvious that I’m ready to ‘put out’. I don’t want to look like I’m trying too hard.

    It’s simple: try using lube. But which is the best lube and for what?

    One of my most popular toys - the Supersex Glass Dildo Set - is also the one most people are confused by. I get asked the following questions time and time again, so thought I should tackle them one by one.

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    I’ve just had a baby and am very keen to maintain things ‘down there’. They told me there were exercises I should do but I didn’t listen because I was exhausted from the birth and have forgotten what they were or how to do them. Can you help?

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    My new boyfriend wants me to send him ‘sexts’ but I’m nervous about him showing his mates. On the other hand, the idea turns me on and I don’t want to be a killjoy. Is there a safe way to do it?

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    I’ve always wanted to have anal sex but my wife is too nervous to try it. How can I convince her to at least give it a try? Do most women like it once they’ve tried it?

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