• Question:

    Sometimes I find it really easy to come and other times it takes real effort. Why is this and what can I do to make orgasms happen more easily?

    Question:

    I’ve been with my girlfriend for four months and we have brilliant sex but I want to keep it good by trying new things. In past relationships, the sex goes off after a year or so and I get bored.

    How can I make sure this doesn’t happen with her. I really want to make it work with this one!

    Question:

    I like face-to-face sexual positions but am sick of me or him on top. What else can we try that doesn’t require athletic ability. Neither of us are very flexible or fit!

    And he’ll need to be able to get to my clitoris as well because I can’t orgasm unless he uses his finger on me at the same time.

    Question:

    What’s a prostate massage? My new partner wants me to give him one and I agreed because I didn’t want to look stupid but I actually have no idea what it is! Can you tell me what it is and how to do one?

    Question:

    Are certain beds better for your sex life? My husband and I are about to buy a new one and wondered if there are any types of beds that improve your sex life. We can’t stretch to a four-poster.

    Question:

    Is it normal for a guy to be really into having his nipples played with? My guy always gets me to squeeze his nipples hard just as he’s about to come. He loves it!

    I don’t mind but isn’t it a bit strange? I thought only women wanted their breasts played with?

    Question:

    My boyfriend recently told me he’d had sex with a guy in the past. He says it was a one-off thing in his teens and he’s been straight since but I’m concerned he’s secretly gay.

    Question:

    My husband and I have been having major problems and I’m terrified we’re going to split up. The problems are too complicated to go into but we both really want to make it work.

    Would counselling work for us and when should we go?

    Question:

    If you wear a condom, are you protected against everything? I faithfully use condoms but have noticed a discharge and am wondering if I should get a check-up.

    Question:

    I have been given an ultimatum by my wife. I have been masturbating too much behind her back and after a lot of pleading for her to forgive me, she told me the only way she would is if I agree to wear a chastity belt, with her holding the keys.

    I’ll do it if that’s what she wants. I can’t trust myself not to masturbate and she thinks all my sexual energy should be saved for her. But it still makes me wonder if this is reasonable?

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