• Question:

    I want to try anal sex with my boyfriend so I bought a small, penis-shaped butt plug to try to get myself used to having a penis inside me.

    But because I've never tried it before, I was thinking of getting some desensitising cream so it wouldn't hurt so much. Is this a good idea? And when and how should I use it?


    I'm inexperienced at sex, only two years out of a long marriage and bi-curious. My boyfriend of two months is older, very experienced, confident and has tried swinging and just about everything else.

    He's as keen as me to have a girl-on-girl sex session but he wants it to involve him as well. I know this sounds insecure but I am worried he will fancy her more or she will be more experienced and it will change our relationship and how I see him.

    I'm turned on by the thought of him being involved but unsure of the aftermath. Help!


    My boyfriend said that before we get married he wants a bachelor party and that he will be having a stripper.

    He said that the stripper is just to make the party a good one for everyone else there, but if that were the case then surely he wouldn't be insisting on it as if it's really important to him?

    I told him I don't want him to have a stripper, but he just goes on about "tradition" and "having a good party". And I know he's not bothered about tradition because he's not even bothered about having a traditional wedding!

    He wants a small registry office one to get it done. Am I right to be concerned about him wanting a stripper, and should I stand my ground and tell him there's no way he's having one?

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    I come way too quickly and I am wondering if this is because I am quite undersized in the penis department.

    Could there be a link and how do I stop it happening?


    Is there such a thing as a U-spot? A friend of mine who is very experienced keeps telling me it's the only way she can orgasm but I don't want to look stupid by asking her what it is.

    She's a bit of a boaster and think she might even be having a joke with me and there is no such thing.

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    I am a cross-dresser and have been doing it privately for years. My wife has never suspected and as much as I'd like to tell her, I've never been game to.

    Recently, she found some underwear that I'd bought for myself on the internet in the washing. She's questioned me about it and I think now thinks I'm having an affair.

    I don't know what is worse - her thinking I'm having an affair or finding out that I'm a cross-dresser. What should I do?

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    I think my husband is pretending that's he's come when he hasn't. He makes all the right noises and thrusts wildly but but when I go to the toilet afterward there doesn't appear to be any semen ejaculated.

    I'm confused - why would a man fake it?

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