First time sex with someone you’ve just hooked up with on Tinder isn’t a big deal.
But having sex with someone you really like is.
You’re both eager to impress, wanting to be the best lover each other’s ever had – and also anxious something will go wrong.
Will my body be good enough? How will I compare to their ex? What if I’m rubbish in bed? What if (Dear God!) I smell?
But your panics are nothing compared to his: his bits are on show, yours aren’t!
How does all this translate in the bedroom (or hallway or on the sofa)?
Not terribly well, quite frankly (especially for him).
But there is a way to make your first time great, no matter what happens.
It’s called allowing each other to be human, as well as showcasing your respective talents.
This guide is aimed at straight couples but works equally well no matter what combination you’re in.