If passing you a beer and getting naked whets your whistle, what does it for her?
Try turning up with a champagne and chocolate dipped strawberries combo (or even plain old ordinary ones if you’ve left it to the last minute). It reminds us of the scene in Pretty Woman and adds a dash of sophistication even if you are still wearing your rugby gear.
It’s more a spontaneous thing? All she needs is your full attention so you can…
Sexually adore her
Your theme word for the beginning bit is ‘sexual adoration’.
Nothing turns us on more than our bodies being admired – with your eyes, with trailing fingertips, your touches becoming less gentle and restrained when you finally get your hands on the top half goodies.
Nothing is sexier than watching someone’s eyes change as lust rudely elbows desire out of the way – let her see this.
You love watching us lose control, we love seeing you do it.
Get her naked, stay dressed yourself
Kiss and lick through her underwear – don’t just rip it off, tease through it, push it to one side, play. Before removing her bra, kiss her neck and then grab a handful of her hair and pull it, just a little, make eye contact then deliver a good, deep long kiss.
Moving on down
Massage her breasts, kiss her neck then move south, pooling saliva in your mouth as you go, so her first lick on her vulva will be soft, gentle and slippery.
Smell her, moan, then move into the ‘swish and lick’: swish a relaxed, wide, thick tongue across the clitoris, then lick slowly up the middle of the vulva (again, keep your tongue relaxed rather than pointed and rigid). Meanwhile, push one finger inside her, then two.
Turn her over
If she’s really, really moaning, turn her over on her tummy and pushing your hand through her legs, keep gently rubbing her clitoris (stop to add lube if she’s dry) and lick around her anus.
Just as you have your ‘thing’, she has hers and this just might be rimming. If she pushes her bottom up to you, do it. If she pulls away, simply stroke her bottom while you’re playing with her clitoris, kiss her neck and then turn her over again.
Put her fingers in your mouth
Lick them, then push them down so she’s touching herself. See if she takes the hint and starts masturbating so you can see a specific style she likes.
If she’s lusty
You should have an idea by now which she’s more into – a slightly rougher lusty style of sex or the soft, gentle sort. Choose an intercourse position accordingly.
Take her from behind if she seems to crave an animal approach, making sure you’re paying lots of attention with your hands to her breasts, massaging them and pulling at her nipples.
When her breathing becomes ragged, add some lube (strategically placed beforehand) and use your fingers to slide up and down between her labia, grazing her clitoris while you continue to thrust.
Sometimes she’ll push your hand away and do it herself – let her. If she doesn’t, just be careful not to go too hard as your orgasm approaches.
If she’s into romantic sex
If this all seems a bit too racy for your girl, instead opt for a sexy spoon position, penetrating from behind (get her to lift her bottom high to allow it). It’s intimate because there’s full body contact but your hands are free to stroke her breasts, her tummy and (of course) deliver the much needed clitoral action.
Kiss her neck and tell her how much you love being inside her.
Stop! It’s not over yet!
Stop before you’re too close to coming, withdraw, and go back to licking her. Keep licking until she orgasms, then when she’s at the tail end of her orgasm (wait at least 15 seconds), pull back and quickly penetrate again, hopefully pushing her over into a second or extended series of contractions.
Then, and only then, can you let go.