"My sperm just oozes out. How can I make it shoot?"
I'm always reading about sperm 'shooting' out, whereas mine just sort of oozes. Is this a problem?
Sperm is ejaculated through the opening in the head of the penis by the muscle spasm of orgasm.
The force at which it's projected depends on the force of the muscle contractions: the more powerful they are, the further the sperm 'shoots'.
Why some men could aim for China and probably get there and others 'ooze', as you charmingly put it, is simply because we're individuals.
Your penile muscle strength is like all the other muscles in your body – it varies according to genes and fitness level (ie how often you use them).
Another factor is the consistency of your semen, affected by diet, health and how frequently you ejaculate. The thinner the semen, the further it will spurt.