Sex Advice: Loud and proud or timid and quiet?
For every lover who shouts, "Thank you God!" at the top of their lungs at the crucial moment, there's one who remains completely and utterly silent.
If you're a loud, lusty girl in bed with an equally passionate vocal guy, feel free to wake up the people in the next county, though remember you may have to stand in line with them at the supermarket the next day.
Shyer types may find your theatrics alarming - we distrust what we're not used to and shy tends to date shy and rowdy, rowdy. Others simply don't believe all that sheet-gripping and dramatic thrashing about is genuine and suspect you've seen one too many B-grade sex scenes. I'd play it safe at the start, then up the volume gradually.