Sex Advice: Foreplay tips for familiar lovers
Think back to when you met each other. The first few dates, particularly the ones before you've had intercourse - are one, long, deliciously exciting foreplay session.
Think back to when you met each other. The first few dates, particularly the ones before you've had intercourse - are one, long, deliciously exciting foreplay session. This is what everyone wants to recapture and it is possible...
Combine romance with eroticism. You feel great when he sends you flowers, why not return the favour? If you think they aren't quite his style, then try sending a bottle of expensive vintage champagne, red wine or port. Now turn that loving gesture into a sexy one. Enclose a note explaining in great detail exactly what he did to deserve such luxurious spoils. (No, not washing your car - the to-die-for oral sex he gave you last week. Got it?) Your postscript details what you're aching for him to do to you that night!
Become a bookworm. Invest in your love life by getting hold of an armful of sex books! Whether it's a sexual guide or a racy, erotic novel, just dip inside once in a while to keep things fresh and imaginative.
Have a bed picnic. Set up chilled wine and an ice-bucket, foods you can eat with your fingers (fresh fruit, chocolates); have an erotic movie playing in the background on the bedroom DVD player.
Send sexy notes.The written word is extremely powerful. Plant notes everywhere (preferably not just before his mother comes to visit): In the fridge stuck to the fruit juice, in his briefcase, the mirror in the bathroom... Each one describes bits of him you find so-o-o sexy. The next time, make them 10 things you'd love to do to him right that second.
Go out without knickers on.This is one steamy idea even the least courageous of females can pull off. All you need to do is dress up for an evening out - and forget to put on your knickers. You can either tell him about it, or 'accidentally' show him by crossing your legs Sharon Stone-style.