Sex Advice: 69 - it's the magic number!
The 69 position is perfect for intimacy yet it can be hard to actually pull off. Here's how you can do it successfully.
A 69er got its name because the numbers are head-to-toe, as you are. It simply means both of you giving each other oral sex simultaneously.
The usual position is the female on top of him, her bottom pointed toward his face, genitals lowered so he can lick them. Meanwhile, her mouth is positioned above his penis. It's the idea of a 69er - giving pleasure to each other at the same time - which is the turn-on for most people.
In reality, it's all too easy to get lazy on your end. If your partner is sending you through the roof, you'll forget about them and try to get away with a few lacklustre licks; same goes for them if you're working your magic.
On the upside, 69ers are great for variety and work well when you're so-o-o-o turned on, just about anything will feel good.
If you like the position but have trouble keeping your mind on the job, take turns. He can give her cunnilingus in that position while she uses her hand on him. She can fellate him while he uses his hand to stimulate her.