• "I'm a virgin when it comes to lesbian sex. What techniques should I use?"


    I've recently discovered I have sexual feelings for women and have recently started dating one. The problem is, I've never done more than kiss another girl and don't know what to do when it progresses to bed!

    I'm no virgin, but I am a virgin when it comes to lesbian sex. I really want my first time with a woman to be a good one not just for me, but for my girlfriend as well!


    Don't commit the classic first-timers mistake of assuming you'll know exactly what she likes just because she's got what you've got. We're all individual and what makes you roll back in ecstasy, could make her roll her eyes to the ceiling in boredom or frustration.

    On the other hand, if you're stuck for inspiration, think about what turns you on. After all, all that's happening is you're on a different side to all the techniques guys used on you.

    If you're really nervous, simply say 'I don't know what to do. Will you take charge?' and lie back and enjoy (though not for long - 'lazy girls' aren't a huge hit with lesbians!)

    Practice makes perfect, but it wouldn't hurt to read up a little on the topic of lesbian sex. Choose from one of the many excellent books available but don't get too caught up in needing to be 'good in bed'. As the saying goes, 'is perfectly natural, it is not naturally perfect'.

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