Sex Advice: How to keep a relationship alive with spontaneous sex
Remember spontaneous sex? Impulsive, animalistic, passionate sex? Sex like it used to be in the beginning? Want to get all that back?
Apart from the odd particularly perky pair, very few long-term couples clock up regular and riveting flesh-feasts. Lots of people complain about not having enough sex and there are two main reasons why they're not: zero time and low desire.
However, spontaneous sex works to rescue your love life because it restores the elements which tend to fade when love kicks off the stilettos and pushes its feet into slippers!
Sex in public requires nerve and common sense. The problem with long-term love is that sex is too easy: its available 24/7. You're not supposed to have sex outside and this is exactly why it amplifies every touch, making it seem a dozen times sweeter than it would indoors.
Learn from affair sex. The intensity in affairs is often caused by time limitations: enforce your own deadlines on sex sessions and you'll achieve a similar effect.
Rediscover technology as the sexy stimulator it can be. Send texts and e-mails filled with lust and longing rather than the usual, mundane 'pick up a pint of milk on the way home from work' stuff.
Photographic evidence isn't always possible when you're having spontaneous sex but doing naughty things in a photo booth is great fun and you have a permanent reminder of how well you play together.