"When my man stimulates me manually I get 'watery wet' and he gets grossed out. Help!"
When my man starts stimulating me manually, I often fear letting myself enjoy it completely, because I always get 'watery wet' and feel like I am leaking pee.
He gets really grossed out so I rarely orgasm. Is this the same as female ejaculation or is it incontinence? I am 28 years old.
Nothing infuriates me more than women telling me their partner makes them feel bad for getting ‘too wet’. He should be complimented you’re so turned on, rather than ‘grossed out’! Quite frankly, I think the main problem is him, not you getting ‘watery wet’.
Find a man who makes you feel comfortable about yourself and your sexuality and I suspect you won’t notice or care how wet you get. So, as you can guess, I’m not a big fan of your boyfriend.
As to what it is: I very much doubt it’s incontinence at your age, unless you have already had several children. If you have, you might want to do kegel exercises (repetitively squeezing and holding the same muscle you use to stop peeing) to strengthen your pelvic floor muscles. It may well be that you’re ejaculating but that’s pretty unusual if you’re not orgasming (most women who do ejaculate do so on orgasm).
My guess is you just lubricate more than most women do. Lucky you. Lots of women suffer from the opposite – not lubricating enough. Embrace it rather than be embarrassed by it.