How To Have More Orgasms
It's both a curse and a blessing being female: it's harder for us to orgasm than it is for men, but it's easier to have more than one. Want to up your orgasm quota? The more different ways you can orgasm, the more orgasms you'll have.
This technique helps retrain your body to respond to a wider range of sexual stimulation:
- Masturbate in your usual way until you're almost, almost there... then stop. Change to a new position, switch to a different technique (if you normally use your fingers, try a vibrator and if you use pressure, try your fingers, etc) then start again. Again, get almost all the way there then stop. Change position and technique again - and keep doing it till you've brought yourself to the brink at least five times. This not only stops your body from expecting exactly the same stimulation to orgasm; it trains it to expect that after one peak of sensation, another is coming.
- Use different stimulation for each orgasm for a while after that. When you're with your partner, alternate oral sex with intercourse with digital stimulation (that's fingers rather than digital telly, but while we're on the topic, a bit of porn playing in the background could be just what you need to add another stimulant to the list!)
- If you masturbate in a way that's particularly non-partner-friendly, train yourself out of it by making small changes each time. Lots of women masturbate face down on the bed. Try lying on your side instead of face down, then when you get used to that, lying on your back. Use different paces, rhythms and hand techniques as well.