• Five-Minute Sex Surprises Part 1 - For Her

    Tracey Cox Supersex Power Vibe

    It’s the unexpected surprises that are the most memorable. Surprise her with any (all) of the following quick-but-effective sex treats and wake up those sleepy libidos!


    Tell her your wickedest, dirtiest thoughts about her. Whisper them close to her ear as you work on her with your hands. Make sure there's no eye contact or pressure to talk dirty back so she can pretend not to like it (don't ask – it's a girl thing), despite the fact that she's suddenly sliding off her seat.

    Shave her legs for her. Do this slowly and with meticulous care. She sits or lies on a towel, you sit beside her with a bowl of water, razor and shaving foam. Let your slippery hands glide up and down her thighs, briefly brush but don't linger in between her legs, push her thighs open under the guise of trying to reach a certain bit, leaving her exposed. Lots of looking and caressing but no touching of the naughty bits equals one very excited girl.

    Use a vibrating penis ring. Slide this on before penetrating her. Grip her hips to hold her close so the little vibrator stays glued to her clitoris, then grind and rock against her instead of using the traditional in-out thrust.

    Ice play. Get her to lie back naked while you run an ice cube down her neck, around her nipples and across her abdomen.

    Behave like a caveman. Pick her up, throw her on the bed, pull her to you and penetrate, grab a handful of hair as you're thrusting and pull it, bite her neck and breasts. "I wish he'd just go for what he wants rather than be so tentative," is a common female complaint. One you'll be happy to hear!

    Go down on her in an empty car park. She stands, you pull her knickers to one side. It's easy to get away with if you stand between cars (and first check for sensor alarms on cars and security cameras!)

    Push a slim vibrator or a vibrating egg inside her. With the vibe inside, work on her clitoris with her tongue for an orgasm she won't forget in a hurry.

    Spanking good times. Put her over your lap pull down her panties and spank her. Alternate spanks with running your fingers between her legs, licking them first.

    Feed her fantasy. Enact her fantasy about being seduced by a workman who's come to fix something in the house (yes, some of our fantasies really are that clichéd!). Talk her through how you'd seduce her, why she's so hot...

    Explore some more. Look at and explore every bit of her with your eyes as well as your hands. Nothing sexier than a guy obviously admiring and lusting after every inch of you, turning you over so he doesn't miss a thing.

    Sexting. Send her a sext when she's having lunch with her girlfriends. "I want to be inside you". "I wish I was licking you right now". If she boasts, you'll look good. Even if she blushes and pretends it was her mother, you can bet she won't be putting her hand up for dessert.

    High flier. Play with her on a plane under the blanket while everyone else is sleeping or engrossed in the movie.

    Eye to eye. Make her look at you as she climaxes. It's incredibly intimate and unbelievably erotic for her to know you're seeing her 'orgasm face'.

    For more tips on elevating intimate play to new heights, check out the Top 10 Best Sex Tips of All Time from the archives. For quick-fire arousal advice for his pleasure, check out Part 2 of Five Minute Sex Surprises - For Him.


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