• Five-Minute Sex Surprises Part 2 - For Him

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    Men arouse quickly, so he'll respond well to spontaneous sex surprises. Treat him to at least one of these a week and he'll be anything but putty in your hands!


    Feel him up in public. Choose a restaurant that has long tablecloths, unzip him and give him a discreet but delicious mini-hand-job (minus the happy ending, obviously.)

    Snog him sexily in front of his friends. It makes him look and feel like a rock god for his friends to see how much you want him.

    Let him see you. He’s a natural voyeur so choose positions where he can see your breasts bouncing up and down, or let him open your legs wide to see your vulva before giving you oral.

    Put your fingers inside yourself. Do this while he’s watching or let him insert a vibrator, a dildo or some love eggs. Men like seeing things disappear inside – and not just his penis.

    Muscle up. Clench your pelvic floor muscles hard while he's inside you, grab his buttocks and pull him close to you. Take over the thrusting and up the speed as you lean in to give him a good, deep tongue kiss. (If you want to get stronger pelvic floor muscles, try my toner balls.)

    Get naked in the changing room. Get him to wait outside the fitting room while you try on clothes, then invite him in after you strip off. He’s fully clothed, you’re naked – you can get away with him giving you two minutes of oral before the shop assistants get suspicious.

    Make it clear. Let him know you lust after him as much as he lusts after you. “I’m never convinced she really enjoys it,” is something men tell me all the time. Make noise, move, hire a plane to stream a message across the sky - let there be no doubt!

    Tape a sex session. If you don’t want any evidence hanging around, erase it once you’ve recorded it and had a little peek at the results. Half the fun is performing for the camera anyway!

    Invest in some ‘slutty’ stuff. Build up a kinky clothing collection purely for wearing at home for him. Skyscraper stilettos, tops slit to the navel, skirts so short you might as well just be wearing a thong…

    Lose your inhibitions. Leave the blinds up as you’re having sex. He doesn’t know you chatted with the neighbours on their way out to dinner twenty minutes earlier.

    Play the no panties game. It’s especially effective if you flash or tell him you’re commando in places or situations where he can’t ravish you. Go to the bathroom at that stuffy dinner party, take them off and discreetly push them into his trouser pocket when you’re sat back down, under cover of the tablecloth.

    Don’t ask him for sex, just take it. Skip the niceties and grab him as he walks in the front door or gets out of the shower. Play with him until he's ready for action or take him from flaccid to hard-as-nails in minutes with your mouth.

    Make out in the back of a cab. Up to you how far you go – the kick’s in knowing the driver is secretly watching in the rear view mirror. Open your legs wide (knickers on) and let him put his fingers inside you and he’ll love you forever. True, the cab driver knows what you’re doing but he can’t see anything but a bit of inner thigh because your man's hand and your knickers cover the rest

    Tempt him at the traffic lights. Pull your skirt up, take his hand and put it between your legs or inside your top to run his hands over your breasts and nipples.

    For Part 1 of Five-Minute Sex Surprises - for Her Pleasure, check out this advice from the archives. For more awesome sex tips, check out the Top 10 Sex Tips of All Time.


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