Six good reasons why men love sex toys too
Bigger erections, transformed everyday positions and out-of-this-world orgasms. What are you waiting for?
Sex toys aren’t just for women. There’s a whole variety of pleasure accessories designed specifically for men that you need to know about. And there are plenty more that can turn so-so sex into woah! sex.
Here’s six good reasons why you should invest in a sex toy:
1 BECAUSE THEY MAKE YOUR ERECTIONS BIGGER, HARDER AND BETTER
Penis pumps work to keep your penis in peak condition by improving blood flow. Regular use really will mean bigger, firmer, stronger erections – up to 30 percent improvement - and more satisfying orgasms.
You simply put your penis inside a chamber and either manually pump a control with your hand or opt for an automatic pump that does the work for you.
I get brilliant feedback on penis pumps: highly recommended if you worry your erections are too wobbly or not strong enough.
2 BECAUSE THEY PROVIDE GUILT-FREE VARIETY
Sex toys help to solve the age-old problem that comes with sleeping with the same person time and time again: boredom!
They provide novelty and adventure, a dash of ‘kinkiness’ and variety without endangering the relationship. There’s a reason why toys are big business: there truly is something for everyone, whatever your ‘thing’ is.
Dildos and vibrators help recreate the fantasy of a threesome, bondage kits are great for roleplay and vibrators take the pressure off you if she’s having a can’t-quite-get-there moment.
3 BECAUSE THEY MAKE SOLO SEX SESSIONS SENSATIONAL
If you haven’t tried a masturbatory sleeve or ‘stroker’, you are seriously missing out. When Lovehoney first asked me to test some for my ranges, years and years ago, I took one look and thought ‘You’re kidding, right? What the hell, and who the hell would want to use these?’
But I gave them to six of my male friends and got six phone calls within a day, with each of them raving about how fabulous they were and refusing to give them back.
Strokers are sleeves, usually made of silicone. Add lube, slip it over your penis and slide it up and down and you’ll be an instant convert. Most have ribs or nodules inside that provide extra stimulation, turning your standard solo sex session into something quite amazing.
4 BECAUSE IT UPS HER CHANCES OF HAVING AN ORGASM DURING INTERCOURSE
A vibrating penis ring is simply a firm ring that you put on around the base of your penis to keep an erection strong and firm.
Some adjust with a toggle, others look like small rubber rings. They effectively stimulate her clitoris during intercourse.
Wearing one will score you huge brownie points with her, just make sure to grind rather than thrust to enable constant contact with the clitoris.
5 BECAUSE THEY TRANSFORM EVERYDAY POSITIONS
Doggie: Wear a penis ring to make your erection bigger and last longer and hold a medium size vibrator on her clitoris to ensure explosive orgasms for both of you.
Cowgirl: Get her to tie your hands together using a bondage kit or handcuffs and blindfold you. She then uses her vibrator on your nipples and testicles.
Missionary: Apply some orgasm gel (lube that has stimulants in it) to her clitoris before penetration and continue to stimulate it with a lubed finger throughout intercourse.
Standing up: Get her to insert a butt plug inside your anus before you enter her from behind and hold a bullet vibrator on her nipples and clitoris.
6 BECAUSE THEY CAN GIVE YOU AN ORGASM THAT’S OUT OF THIS WORLD
The male G-spot, the prostate, is inside the rectum and when stimulated, can provide explosive orgasms like nothing you’ve ever experienced.
Vibrating butt plugs or anal probers easily and effectively stimulate the G-spot to produce an orgasm that’s totally different to what you’re used to.
Get her to give you oral sex while a vibrating butt plug is inserted or masturbate yourself and you may achieve a blended orgasm (two different types of orgasms from simultaneous stimulation of two different erogenous zones).