• Question:

    I'm obsessed with my boyfriend. When I'm with him I feel like the happiest girl in the world and when I'm not I'm really sad and I don't want to do anything apart from be with him. It’s like I'm a different person now.

    I want to be with him all the time and it's causing problems because he wants to spend some time with his mates. I can’t go out with mine because I lost them all through fights over him. I really love him and don't want to lose him. Can you help me?

    Question:

    I split with my ex boyfriend six months ago and he’s still bombarding me with emails, texts and phone calls, begging to be given another chance or abusing me, depending on what mood he is in. It’s both upsetting and threatening. I’ve been told to ignore him but that isn’t working. What do I do now?

    Question:

    I'm 46 years of age though I look and act younger. I go out a lot have lots of friends and a busy life but I've never been married and have no children. People I meet are always puzzled as to why I am single. I have had one long term relationship in my 20's which was abusive.

    The longest relationship since has been about six months. I'm afraid I will be 'left on the shelf'. I worry men are only interested in me for a one night stand, I simply don't fancy them or there is no chemistry. I would love to know what I am doing wrong? I know it all boils down to confidence and I have never had much confidence with men. I want to be sexy and confident. Can you please help?

    Question:

    My boyfriend and I have a great sex life, but recently I've found myself getting a little curious about introducing a vibrator into the mix. At first he was extremely doubtful about this and not too keen to tell the truth, but as we began to talk it through more he has become a bit more accepting.

    However, he mentioned a concern about using a vibrator during sex with me (I suggested a clitoral vibrator rather than anything too threatening). He says he's heard that using a vibrator close to the penis can cause blood vessels to burst and so we "couldn't use it like that anyway". Is this true?

    Question:

    Do aphrodisiac pills work to increase libido or do they work as a placebo?

    Question:

    When I first started playing with vibrators about seven years ago, I started having my first orgasms, and they were phenomenal.  I thought I had found the solutions to the world's problems.  Now, they seem routine, almost boring.

    I rarely have those full body mind blowing orgasms I used to frequently have. It's becoming frustrating, and I'm not sure what the cause is.  Do I need a new toy?  Are there exercises you’d recommend to get those old feelings back?

    Question:

    My partner and I have been together for six months and I’m worried we are completely mismatched in bed, although we get on really well out of it. I’m up for anything and she’s not.

    Her parents are very conservative and it seems to have rubbed off on her. I know this ‘vanilla’ sex won’t be enough to keep me interested in the long term. I’ve tried suggesting we do new things but she’s really not interested and I see little hope for change. Should I move on?

    Question:

    I’ve just tested positive for herpes - oral herpes but on my genitals. My boyfriend is accusing me of cheating but I haven’t slept with anyone but him for years and he frequently gets cold sores on his mouth. Could he have given it to me?

    Question:

    I’m a pretty ordinary looking bloke - I’m not handsome but I'm not ugly either - but I find it hard to attract women. My mates all seem to pull easily and I don’t think they are any better than me. But I never do and I’m really tired of always having to DIY at the end of a night out. I want the sex they are getting but have no idea what I’m doing wrong. How can I get a girl to sleep with me?

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