• Question:

    My husband and I have been having major problems and I’m terrified we’re going to split up. The problems are too complicated to go into but we both really want to make it work.

    Would counselling work for us and when should we go?

    Question:

    If you wear a condom, are you protected against everything? I faithfully use condoms but have noticed a discharge and am wondering if I should get a check-up.

    Question:

    I have been given an ultimatum by my wife. I have been masturbating too much behind her back and after a lot of pleading for her to forgive me, she told me the only way she would is if I agree to wear a chastity belt, with her holding the keys.

    I’ll do it if that’s what she wants. I can’t trust myself not to masturbate and she thinks all my sexual energy should be saved for her. But it still makes me wonder if this is reasonable?

    Question:

    I am 26 and my boyfriend is 28. We have good sex but it only really takes about 15 minutes. Is this normal. How long should a sex session last?

    Question:

    After finally giving in to having sex with my new boyfriend, he didn’t come! I feel quite insulted that he didn’t have an orgasm. Why would this be?

    Question:

    I recently went to the doctor because I thought I had an STI. She tested me and told me I did but not to worry because it was bacterial.

    She gave me a course of tablets and said that would be that. I have no clue what I had and am worried it may come back.

    Question:

    I am the only virgin in my group of friends. We are all in our 20s. I guess I just haven't found the right guy yet but I don't want to be unprepared when I do.

    My friends suggested getting a vibrator to loosen me up for when that time comes. What do you think?

    Question:

    I have never ever had an orgasm during sex. And I have never had one by myself unless my legs are poker straight.

    Even if they are a little bent, nothing! I started masturbating when I was younger and got into the habit of having my legs straight, and ever since then find it difficult to find a sexual position where this works. What should I do?

    Question:

    I’m horniest during my period but it’s not only messy, my tummy and cervix are sensitive during this time. Do you know a good position to overcome this?

    Question:

    I met and married my husband very quickly as it was love at first sight but just a few months after our honeymoon, I found out he was setting his alarm clock an hour early to get up and go downstairs to masturbate to internet porn.

    My whole world fell apart but we got through it. We have now split as I found out he was masturbating in the loo at work as well as continuing doing this at home, without ever wanting sex with me. When I asked him why he did it, he said he wanted to watch porn more than have sex with me.

    I now feel so ashamed. I must be so fat and ugly and it must be my fault. Please help me understand this.

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