Some low-libido couples happily decide to take sex off the table but the majority of us value regular sex and the intimacy that comes with it.
If you’re not having sex and the problem isn’t looking like it’s going to be fixed any time soon, decisions need to be made.
Lots of things affect our libido. Everything from our diet, lifestyle and self-esteem to landing the wrong genes or choosing the wrong partner.
Happily though, sluggish sex drives can be ramped up to raunchy, simply by observing a few simple rules.
Does penis size matter?
Statistics vary wildly but the average length of an erect penis is around 5.1 inches, the average girth when erect is 4.8 inches and the average length when flaccid (not erect) is 3.5 inches.
I’ve always said mouths are great for lots of things in bed, but the most important of them all is talking.
Second most important: knowing when to zip your lips.
There are some sex sentences that should never, ever be said - especially not in the heat of the moment. Like…
Some people are opportunistic cheaters and jump at a bit on the side whenever it's on offer, even if they're blissfully, happily married.
But most - women particularly - are lured into infidelity during difficult times and end the affair when the marriage becomes stable and satisfying again.
You’re then faced with a moral dilemma: if you've had an affair but it's now over, is it better to come clean or say nothing?
People assume honestly is the best policy but in this scenario but it's not necessarily true. It depends very much on the circumstances.
So you think you’re pretty good at giving oral sex?
Haven’t had any complaints but have had lots of women begging for more?
Most experienced lovers know the basics (make sure she’s wet, don’t be too rough). But don’t be too sure you’re at masterclass level until you check you’re not guilty of any of the following…
Wrapping your mouth around your lover’s penis is one of the most personal, intimate and erotic sex acts of all. Enthusiastically embracing oral sex shows your partner you’re not squeamish and happy to give as well as receive pleasure. Follow this up with good technique and you can’t help but impress.
Or can you?
Giving good oral isn’t quite as easy as it looks and many a skilled fellator has been guilty of one of the following. Make sure you aren’t!
Thought you’d never have to stare at a strange ceiling again?
Won’t even show your naked body to the cat, let alone someone new?
Splitting up with a long-term lover leaves most of us feeling vulnerable, insecure and unattractive.
You can’t imagine yourself ever being happy, let alone wanting or having having hot, erotic sex with someone new.
But trust me: that day will come - and so will you!
Here’s how to navigate the journey back to the bedroom, emotionally and physically.
Imagine an orgasm that lasts a full 30 minutes, with occasional, deep contractions occurring up to 24 hours afterward.
If you're the average woman enjoying a reasonably good sex life, a whole 45 seconds of your week is spent having an orgasm.
Yup. All that buzzing and stroking and grinding for a mere 15 seconds of ecstasy, three times over.
Now imagine an orgasm that lasts a full 30 minutes, with occasional, deep contractions occurring up to 24 hours afterwards.