• Question:

    I want to know if it is normal to get wet whenever I fantasise about a certain guy that I know?

    I'm also a bit nervous that when we're going to have sex for the first time I get all excited and wet, which is somehow embarrassing for me. Is there any way to control this excessive wetness?

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    I'm a 21 year-old girl and I had a baby girl 8 months ago, but I'm really depressed because since having a baby my partner has said he can't feel sex any more and neither can I.

    What can I do if my vagina has stretched?


    I know where the clitoris is but for some reason, I can't find it with my new girlfriend.

    I'm not sure if it's really small or if I am doing something wrong but it doesn't seem to be where it should be.

    I don't want to ask her where it is for fear of her thinking I'm a useless lover.

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    I have been with my partner for 4 years and I really want to try using sex toys and I have mentioned this to him.

    He was really keen at first and then he started to be put off the idea and said to me 'Why do you want to use something anyway?'. Because of this I have not bought any toys but I really want to.

    I have not mentioned this to him again because of what he said about it and it hurt my feelings. I just thought it would spice things up in the bedroom. What can I do?


    I often feel like I ignore his testicles in favour of his penis but don't really know what I'm supposed to do with them!

    I've also heard they are incredibly sensitive and am worried I'll hurt him.


    I have never had an orgasm and can't understand why. We alternate positions and are often adventurous but also sometimes romantic.

    It has got to a point where I don't enjoy having sex any more because I never get pleasure from it.


    My boyfriend is clean and showers regularly but his penis smells weird when I give him oral sex. Is there a way of telling him without offending him?

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