• Question:

    I have been with my partner for 4 years and I really want to try using sex toys and I have mentioned this to him.

    He was really keen at first and then he started to be put off the idea and said to me 'Why do you want to use something anyway?'. Because of this I have not bought any toys but I really want to.

    I have not mentioned this to him again because of what he said about it and it hurt my feelings. I just thought it would spice things up in the bedroom. What can I do?


    I often feel like I ignore his testicles in favour of his penis but don't really know what I'm supposed to do with them!

    I've also heard they are incredibly sensitive and am worried I'll hurt him.


    I have never had an orgasm and can't understand why. We alternate positions and are often adventurous but also sometimes romantic.

    It has got to a point where I don't enjoy having sex any more because I never get pleasure from it.


    My boyfriend is clean and showers regularly but his penis smells weird when I give him oral sex. Is there a way of telling him without offending him?

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    I've tried new positions but other than that I don't really know where to start. Neither of us are into role play.

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    I found my boyfriend watching porn on the internet and have started checking the history on the computer. He's watching it all the time and it's starting to really get to me.

    I know all guys do it but I feel threatened. How do I cope with this?


    My girlfriend cannot stop flirting with other guys and it bothers me sometimes. She seems very happy with our relationship and our sex life but I'm not sure if she just likes attention or she's not getting what she wants from the relationship. How can I find out?

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