• Question:

    I have a bit of an unusual problem. My boyfriend of two years has never wanted to sleep with me. We are really in love and he is adamant that he doesn't have any sort of problem like impotence.

    We sleep in the same bed almost every night, and it's humiliating and it's ruining my self esteem. He says it's because he hasn't got things 'sorted' yet.

    He is working two jobs and trying to build up his own business in stocks and shares, so I know he is quite stressed.

    I love him and don't want to cheat on him and have tried explaining that I have needs, but he doesn't ever give in. It's been two years! Please help!


    When my boyfriend and I have sex it always seems the same. We've tried a few positions but it lasts 10 minutes and then my boyfriend isn't interested any more.

    I feel unsatisfied. Is there anything we can do to make it last longer and feel more satisfying for me?

    When stimulating your partner, it's helpful to know if you're doing it right and when they're about to orgasm.


    When I masturbate I have no problem ejaculating, but when I have intercourse I can't orgasm. I also cannot pull back my foreskin as it is too tight. Is this why I cannot ejaculate during sex?


    I have tried everything I can think of when it comes to sex. I look in books and buy videos for new ideas, go to websites. I even bought a newspaper as it had an article written by five sex experts.

    But I've done everything in them. Sex is getting so boring. Any suggestions?


    My partner and I live 167 miles apart and he wants phone sex. I don't mind listening to him talk dirty to me and find it quite a turn on but I find it difficult to talk back to him. Do you have any tips?


    My boyfriend of three years is travelling while I'm going to college here.

    Although I initially told him that maybe we should turn a blind eye to any indiscretions that might happen in this time (partly I guess because I was looking for reassurance from him) he said that he didn't want this; that he would be faithful and he didn't think he was capable of cheating on someone anyway.

    Now I find out (through a friend) that he and his friends have been going to sex shows in Bangkok and I'm secretly fuming and very jealous! Do I still trust him? I can feel myself switching off... Help!


    I recently tried on a leather body suit in a shop and found I enjoyed it. The only thing is, I'm not very confident.

    I've worn things like police costumes, lace bodies, babydolls and basques.

    Do you have any ideas that would help boost my confidence so I can wear leather pieces and become a Mistress?

    How A Sensual Massage Can Really Get You In The Mood!

    Schedule it for a Saturday or Sunday afternoon when you have hours to while away and enjoy the most amazing sensual massage that will turn you both on!


    I'm 25 years old and have been married for 9 years; my husband mentioned to me recently that he would like to watch an adult film with me.

    I feel like it's inviting someone else into our bedroom and that he just wants to see other females. Why would he want to look at one in the first place or what is his reason?

    Should I go along with this? I'm confused as to why he wants to do this as I thought that our sex was great!

    More entries