• Eye movement studies show we look at different parts of other people's faces depending on the situation and level of attractiveness.


    I'm afraid to be on top because I don't know how to do it. I have tried it but I can't. Do you have any advice?


    I been with my girlfriend for 8 years and she has always been quite off about receiving oral sex.

    A year ago she said she was just worried she didn't taste or smell right, which I said was nonsense as I love it!

    She told me at the weekend that she just plain doesn't like it. She's fine with me being down there using my fingers, but she said the feeling of a tongue down there 'freaks her out'.

    Is there any way of changing her mind, or am I stuck?

    Can a woman really ejaculate like a man?

    There has been a lot of debate over female ejaculation, but there are several explanations to this amazing phenomena.


    My boyfriend wants to come in my mouth but I don't fancy it at all!

    Is there a way of pretending to swallow without actually doing it?


    I've got lots of gay male friends and they talk about 'dick whipping'.

    When I asked what it was, they said to ask my boyfriend but he didn't have any idea either. What is it?


    I'm a 34 year old woman with an older husband (there's 12 years difference).

    Why is it that at this age my sex drive is so unpredictable?

    There are times when I demand it so much he can't keep up. Why is this and what can we do to make our bodies merge as one?

    It doesn't need to be stale, everyday couples can have exceptional sex!

    Monogamy doesn't have to be synonymous with monotony. Change up the variables and sex will seem entirely new and different!


    I have been with my partner for nearly four years now, and have never had an orgasm with him. The last time I had one with a guy was about seven years ago.

    When I'm on my own I can orgasm quite easily. I think I have got so used to it on my own, it seems impossible to achieve it with my partner.

    He seems to want to masturbate more often than have sex, I'm not sure if this is down to him thinking he's not satisfying me, or if it's just a guy thing.

    I do enjoy the sex, but feel I need to relax and enjoy it more. Can you give me any tips?


    My boyfriend is very one-sided in bed. He doesn't want to use sex toys, doesn't even want me to use them.

    He wants me to give him oral sex and to masturbate him, but he refuses to give me oral sex or masturbate me.

    He also will not let me touch myself in front of him. How do I get him to come around and try new things? This is hurting our relationship.

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