Was it bedding the person you’d been lusting after for years? Having sex somewhere you definitely shouldn’t? Ticking something off the sex bucket list? Or doing it in a position or place that couldn’t be beaten?
Why you need to dismiss these silly sex assumptions society makes about men that actually have little or no basis in fact. He’ll thank you for it – and you’ll feel better as well!
“I promise to have sex with you once a week and come up with something new to try at least twice a month. In return, you promise to kiss me more, spend more time on foreplay and give me lots of compliments in bed.”
Another day with your Christmas-padded bottoms glued to the sofa watching box sets? How about trading that for some all-day sex play!
Anal sex positions can be a lot more imaginative than doing it doggy style. If you're up for some anal action, try any (or all) of these.
If you're never tried anal sex before, do both of you a favour and read the Anal Sex Prep Guide first but if you're an old hand, all you need is lots of (good quality) anal lube, a wicked glint in your eye and maybe the odd piece of furniture!
Sex guru Alfred Kinsey claimed that by the age of 30, one woman in four had felt sexually attracted to another women. By age 40, he said, one in five had had some sort of sexual encounter with another woman.
Whether you're finally indulging a lifelong fantasy, ticking off a 2016 resolution before the New Year's Day deadline, or yielding to an idle whim, fisting can be an exhilarating adventure - if you follow strict guidelines. Yes I said strict; fisting is no one's idea of a beginner activity.
While growing in popularity, within relationships anal sex can still be a divisive and delicate subject to broach.
Generally speaking, most men are keen to give it a go while most women are more cautious. Interestingly, gay men also approach their first time with trepidation and the same guy who assured you it wouldn't hurt one bit suddenly loses enthusiasm if you suggest pegging (putting on a strap-on dildo and penetrating him)!
There’s one simple thing you can do to make sure you and your partner are sexually satisfied for life - and you’d be surprised at how few couples actually do it.
Warning: you’re actually not going to like the answer to this dilemma because the solution isn’t sneaky (well, maybe a tiny bit) and it involves directly confronting the problem - something most people hate doing.
Well, brace yourself! Being able to talk honestly and openly about sex is essential if you want anything near a decent relationship, so you might as well bite the bullet and do it now! (This exercise, by the way, works for kissing but also works for perfecting any technique.)