Do orgasms feel the same for everyone? Does his orgasm feel different than hers?
Biologically, everyone moves through the same stages. We become aroused, then move to a plateau phase (highly aroused), onto orgasm, then resolution (when the body returns to normal).
Forget chatting about the weather, Brexit or how much you hate your job. Slip some penis trivia into your next conversation and watch everyone suddenly stand up and pay attention. Here's some stats and facts guaranteed to keep them amused!
Think you’re in charge of your love and sex life? Think again. When we call people ‘love junkies’, we are actually being accurate: we’re all completely and utterly under the influence of our brain hormones.
Want to look bigger - instantly, stop the condom falling off, or have stronger erections more quickly? You’re in the right place.
Here it is in one sentence: act like a man.
In the brilliant book I Love Female Orgasm, author Dorian Solot points out what is blatantly obvious but ignored. That guys don’t lie back waiting hopefully for their partners to give them an orgasm during intercourse, they do whatever it takes to get themselves there.
Hands up who’d like more orgasms? How about more intense orgasms? Or more than one in a row? (After all, who stops at one biscuit? Or one chocolate? Or one glass of wine?)
Here are some clever but simple ideas to help you achieve all three.
Part one of 'How to talk about sex' detailed the basics of how to talk to your partner about sex in general. Now we’re talking specifics. Whether you want more of something, a technique done differently or are aching to share that fantasy, here’s how to get things started…
How do I tell my lover what I want without offending them? This is one of the sex questions I’m asked the most. In the beginning, when you’re shagging yourselves silly, talking about sex is easy. In fact, most of us don’t shut up about it. It’s only when things go wrong that we clam up. Not so much fun talking about sex when you’re not up for it, not having it or hate doing it!
This is for the 70-odd per cent of women who can't orgasm except through oral sex, masturbation or by using their trusty vibe.
As much as orgasms are delicious any way you can get them, it would be nice to have one during intercourse, when he's having one, too!
Fast, frenzied sex will do many nice things for your relationship. It reminds you both how much you are attracted to each other on a purely physical basis and it's unplanned, impulsive sex that keeps the 'Aren't we naughty?' buzz alive.
There is no argument against the fact that quick sex, rather than no sex, keeps you connected as a couple.
Here's how to make it good sex as well!