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Mom's Don't Have Time to Read Books

Each week, writer Zibby Owens interviews authors on this award-winning literary podcast. Here, we talk about how sex is ageless, how ‘bite-size’ sex counts just as much as marathon sessions – and, if you listen right to the end, you’ll hear Zibby ask me to host her Mom’s Don’t Have Time to Have Sex podcast! Obviously I said yes!

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Divorced Not Dea‪d

Caroline Stanbury is divorced, not dead. She’s here to let you know that not only is there life after divorce – it can be your best one yet! We chat about everything from why the older woman/younger man combo works to why being desired is way more important than orgasms.

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Sex and Psychology Podcast

Dr Justin Lehmiller is a social psychologist and one of the world’s most respected sex researchers. I’ve been reading his Sex and Psychology blog for years and was honoured to be a guest on the podcast. This episode has something for all age groups including body image issues and men’s struggle with erection issues.

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Honest AF Show

Daniella Clarke and Barbaranne Wylde are rock wives, beauty icons, entrepreneurs – and damn interesting women. Here we talk about life, love and (not) ageing gracefully.

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The Sit Down podcast

This podcast with 19-year-old Sander Segers is all about sex and young people. If you want honest answers on what’s in store, this is the one to watch!

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The Happy Menopause podcast

Nutritional therapist and author Jackie Lynch has an excellent website and podcasts based on how to manage menopause. Here we talk about how to boost your libido and have great sex in midlife.

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The Meaningful Life

Andrew G. Marshall is a couple’s therapist who’s written 20 books on couple relationships. We talk about the role of sex and desire and how it helps to lead a meaningful life.

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The Girl Boner Podcast

Health and sexuality writer August McLaughlin explores sexual empowerment on this podcast, which is a spicy blend of personal stories, in-depth reporting and inspiration. We talked about everything from sexual desire and libido to facts and myths about sexless relationships.

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Magazines
Tonic talksTonic is a new Australian magazine website for women over 45 ‘who refuse to fade away and who call it as they see it’. I chat regularly about sex and relationships.

What to do if your partner isn’t interested in sex anymore, advice on sex after menopause and why women want MORE adventurous sex, not less, as they get older.

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Youtube clips
Does penis size matter?

It’s the question men ask me the most, so here’s my honest opinion. Is big really best? And how big is the average penis anyway?

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IS IT NORMAL FOR YOUR LIBIDO TO DROP AS YOU AGE?

Is it normal for a woman to want sex less now than she did in her 20s? Why our sex drive falls with age and what can be done to boost it.

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Why most couples had LESS sex during lockdown, not more

Is there such a thing as too much time with your partner? Actually, yes! Couples need separation in order for lust to survive.

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Painful sex and how to deal with it

What do you do when sex is painful? Here’s some simple solutions and options to make sex more comfortable.

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Why great sex starts at 50

Here’s an interview on my new book, Great Sex Starts at 50, on The Jeremy Vine Show

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How to tell your partner their sex skills need improving

It’s awkward to address but has to be done. Here’s some tips on confronting this sensitive issue.

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