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The multi-award winning podcast has had a revamp. It’s sexier and sassier with no-holds-barred answers to all your sex dilemmas.

My new co-host is Kelsey Chittick, a writer and comic. She’s in her 40s and out there dating again after 21 years of marriage. Kelsey is as funny as hell and, together, we offer up real, honest and reassuring sex advice on all the problems we face today.

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Guest Podcasts
The Diary of a CEO

I’ve been listening to Steve Barlett’s Diary of a CEO podcast since its release. It’s my favourite podcast and has the most extraordinarily articulate and thought-provoking guests. ‘Christ! You must be top of your field to be on this!’, I’d think as I’d listen. He gets 1.8 million subscribers on YouTube and over 200 million total audio listeners for good reason.

When my agent Vicki emailed to say I’d been asked to go on Diary of a CEO, my response was a very loud ‘Holy F**k!’. I was both terrified and excited, but excitement won.

Here’s what happened next.

Divorced Not Dea‪d

Caroline Stanbury is divorced, not dead. She’s here to let you know that not only is there life after divorce – it can be your best one yet! We chat about everything from why the older woman/younger man combo works to why being desired is way more important than orgasms.

Sex and Psychology Podcast

Dr Justin Lehmiller is a social psychologist and one of the world’s most respected sex researchers. I’ve been reading his Sex and Psychology blog for years and was honoured to be a guest on the podcast. This episode has something for all age groups including body image issues and men’s struggle with erection issues.

Girl Boner podcast

I love the style of host August McLaughlin – she narrates, rather than interviews. Edits and packages, so all the boring bits disappear. Here, we talk about how to make the most of your libido and how to boost desire.

Generation Ripe

It’s a podcast for teenagers over 40 – someone who thinks of their age as an asset, not a liability. You can see why I loved doing this one! It’s co-hosted by the actress, writer and producer Wendi McLendon-Covey and the art director and producer Dfernando Zaremba, who tackle the subject of sex with enthusiasm and curiosity.

The Meaningful Life

Andrew G. Marshall is a couple’s therapist who’s written 20 books on couple relationships. We talk about the role of sex and desire and how it helps to lead a meaningful life.

Honest AF Show

Daniella Clarke and Barbaranne Wylde are rock wives, beauty icons, entrepreneurs – and damn interesting women. Here we talk about life, love and (not) ageing gracefully.

The Sit Down podcast

This podcast with 19-year-old Sander Segers is all about sex and young people. If you want honest answers on what’s in store, this is the one to watch!

The Happy Menopause podcast

Nutritional therapist and author Jackie Lynch has an excellent website and podcasts based on how to manage menopause. Here we talk about how to boost your libido and have great sex in midlife.

Tonic talksTonic is a new Australian magazine website for women over 45 ‘who refuse to fade away and who call it as they see it’. I chat regularly about sex and relationships.

What to do if your partner isn’t interested in sex anymore, advice on sex after menopause and why women want MORE adventurous sex, not less, as they get older.

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Youtube clips
Does penis size matter?

It’s the question men ask me the most, so here’s my honest opinion. Is big really best? And how big is the average penis anyway?

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Is it normal for a woman to want sex less now than she did in her 20s? Why our sex drive falls with age and what can be done to boost it.

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Why most couples had LESS sex during lockdown, not more

Is there such a thing as too much time with your partner? Actually, yes! Couples need separation in order for lust to survive.

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Painful sex and how to deal with it

What do you do when sex is painful? Here’s some simple solutions and options to make sex more comfortable.

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Why great sex starts at 50

Here’s an interview on my new book, Great Sex Starts at 50, on The Jeremy Vine Show

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How to tell your partner their sex skills need improving

It’s awkward to address but has to be done. Here’s some tips on confronting this sensitive issue.

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