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    four ways to orgasm during intercourse

    Own a penis?

    Congratulations: you’ll orgasm through intercourse around 80 per cent of the time.

    Own a vulva?

    Bad news - less than one in four women always orgasm through vaginal intercourse.

    Why the orgasm gap?

    Well, whoever designed the female body, put the clitoris outside the vagina. Given clitoral stimulation is responsible for almost all female orgasms, this is not helpful.

    10 reasons to love your rabbit vibrator

    This series of posts are designed to make sure you’re getting the most out of all the sex toys you own. All too often they get relegated to one purpose: what they’re best for.

    While every sex toy does have a prime purpose, they’re all far more versatile than you think.

    Here’s some fresh new ideas to help you make the most of your sex toys so you get maximum value and pleasure out of every purchase!

    10 reasons to love your stroker

    This series of posts are designed to make sure you’re getting the most out of all the sex toys you own.

    All too often they get relegated to one purpose: what they’re best for.

    While every sex toy does have a prime purpose, they’re all far more versatile than you think.

    Here’s some fresh new ideas to help you make the most of your sex toys so you get maximum value and pleasure out of every purchase!

    10 reasons to love your anal toy

    This is the third in a series of posts designed to make sure you're getting the most out of all the sex toys you own.

    All too often they get relegated to one purpose: what they're best for.

    While every sex toy does have a prime purpose, they're all far more versatile than you think.

    Here's some fresh new ideas to help you make the most of your sex toys so you get maximum value and pleasure out of every purchase!

    10 NEW REASONS TO LOVE YOUR G-SPOT VIBE

    This is the second in a series of posts designed to make sure you’re getting the most out of all the sex toys you own. All too often they get relegated to one purpose: what they’re best for.

    While every sex toy does have a prime purpose, they’re all far more versatile than you think.

    Here’s some fresh new ideas to help you make the most of your sex toys so you get maximum value and pleasure out of every purchase!

    10 reasons to love your wand vibrator

    This is the first in a series of posts designed to make sure you’re getting the most out of all the sex toys you own.

    All too often they get relegated to one purpose: what they’re best for.

    While every sex toy does have a prime purpose, they’re all far more versatile than you think.

    Here’s some fresh new ideas to help you make the most of your sex toys so you get maximum value and pleasure out of every purchase!

    Most men are quite practised at masturbating by age 12 or 13.

    7 ways to make your next masturbatory session the best you've ever had

    But even if you’ve brought yourself to orgasm a thousand times, I bet you’ve done it pretty much the same way almost every single one of those.

    Truth is, the more you experiment with different techniques and varying sensations, the more in control you’ll be of your orgasms - solo and with a partner.

    Masturbation isn’t and shouldn’t be something you do simply to ease tension. It’s an experience to be enjoyed for its own merits.

    Next time, how about you…

    how to have the hottest solo sex you've ever had

    Most solo sex sessions are rushed: we feel horny so grab our vibe, turn it on and few minutes later, that’s that. You’re missing a trick if that’s all you ever do.

    Truth is, sex with yourself can be the best sex of all: who knows your body and what you want, where, how, when and for how long better than the person who’s on the other end of those nerve endings!

    Be experimental and retire that tried-and-true routine now and then and you’ll not only find out more about your body and what feels good, you’ll have a better time.

    why fast sex is often great sex

    If you don’t have time for a prolonged sex session or don’t particularly want one, give in to the oh-so-sweet pleasures of fast, hasty sex of any form.

    Done at the right time with the right partner, quickies can be equally, if not more, satisfying than those long, drawn-out sex sessions. The trick is both of you being in the same turned-on mood at the same time.

    This is one instance where you can forget everything I’ve told you about spending time on foreplay: the whole appeal of a quickie is that it happens spontaneously and the only foreplay you need is ‘Let’s do it’.

    One word of warning though: a quickie quickly turns from erotically exotic to furiously frustrating if it’s the way you have sex every time.

    are you sexually happy? what sexual happiness means to me

    We tend to measure our enjoyment of sex in terms of performance.

    But sexual happiness isn’t measured by how much sex you’re having, how long you’re having it for or how many people you’ve had sex with.

    Sexual happiness is an attitude: a healthy, uninhibited way of thinking about sex that gives you the courage to be truly yourself sexually.

    There are many light bulb moments that bring us to this blissful state - which is why the following list is by no means exhaustive.

    But, for me, these are cornerstones of a sexual happiness philosophy.

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