Talking about sex is something every couple should do but there are some things that should never, ever escape your lips – especially during the heat of the moment.
Hands up who’s ever said the wrong thing in bed – or been on the receiving end of any of these sexual clangers?
Should he be insulted that you didn’t either?
I’m not psychic, it’s just that very, very few women have an orgasm via intercourse the first time they have sex with a new partner. (Lots don’t have an orgasm the other 10,000 times either, but that’s another story.)
I know, I know, it’s much easier for him to climax than you so it’s different.
But the reason behind him not coming is the same reason you didn’t: the pressure is on and you’re both out to impress.
So, what are love drugs?
Well, they’re not drugs like coke or MDMA.
However fabulous they might feel at the time, the effect isn’t quite as sexy when your nose caves in or your brain gets stuck on ‘seriously depressed’.
The real love drugs are what our bodies produce naturally when we’re attracted and aroused by someone.
Happy 2020 everyone! I hope it’s a brilliant year for all of you.
January is, of course, the perfect time to give that lacklustre sex life a dusting off.
Help inject new blood with these easy, playful suggestions.
