There are many myths about whether you should or shouldn’t swallow semen.
Most, like the one that says it’s like a big vitamin pill, are, I suspect, spread by hopeful men who enjoy the experience.
The reality is semen is made up of sperm and a fluid called seminal plasma which is 80 per cent water.
It’s pretty harmless – except for one big, flashing red light…
A sex therapist friend once told me if someone tells him they know a couple married 20 years whose sex life is as good as it was at the start, there are only three possibilities.
The first, they’re lying.
The second, they’re telling the truth because they didn’t have good sex to begin with.
Or sex is all they’ve ever had because they haven’t connected emotionally.
I have to agree with him.
Long-term sex can be very good and immensely satisfying – but it sure as hell won’t be the sort of sex you had at the start.
Our sex lives, like most things, change throughout our lives and tend to follow a predictable path the longer we stay together.
These are the eight stages therapists and research say most couples pass through (though not necessarily strictly in this order).
Forewarned is forearmed: knowing what’s ahead means you’ll have more chance of lasting the distance!
I’m not an idiot, I can hear you mutter, everyone knows where the clitoris is.
Well actually, they don’t.
It’s a question I get asked a lot by men – both old and young – because while the clitoris is obvious on some women, it isn’t on all.
Here’s directions on how to find the only organ on the human body that is designed purely for pleasure!
The only, absolutely guaranteed way to find out how your partner likes to be brought to orgasm manually, is to watch them do it to themselves.
Watching your partner masturbate isn’t just sexy, it’s the most informative sex lesson you’ll get.
Too embarrassed to demonstrate?
Close your eyes as you’re doing it. I don’t care if you’re dying behind those eyelids, the benefits of doing this so outweigh the angst.
While you’re watching each other, pay special attention to…
