Just about everyone has sexual fantasies – and there are lots of reasons why.
What happens in our heads is completely private.
If no-one can see or hear what we’re thinking, there are no rules – we’re free to be totally honest. No-one can condemn us for being slutty, immoral, ‘dirty’, depraved, degenerate, or horribly (delightedly) politically incorrect.
Except, of course, ourselves.
Analysing fantasies is a bit like dream analysis: it’s more about the individual interpretation than generalised concepts. Dreaming of performing on stage is a positive dream for some; for others it would qualify as an anxiety dream. But there are some common themes that tend to apply.
If you’re worried about what your fantasies say about you – or just plain curious – here’s some theories. As always, let your instinct guide you on what rings true and what doesn’t.