If one orgasm is difficult for some, having two or more is tougher for just about everyone.

Why?

After you’ve ‘taken the edge off’, our nerve endings become desensitized. We’re often emotionally satisfied and our bodies start flooding with hormones designed to make us believe once is enough. You might want to have sex all night long but your body probably doesn’t (there are reasons it floods with beddy-bye hormones rather than let’s go again).

Before we go any further with the whole concept of multiple orgasms, let’s be absolutely clear on what that term means.

By ‘multiple’ most people mean ‘sequential’ – which basically means you clock up more than one orgasm in one sex session, rather than have orgasms that follow on mere seconds after each other.

And there’s more than one type…

Sharing fantasies requires trust – especially the more ‘out there’ ones.

Not only do you have to hope like hell your partner won’t judge you, you also need to be 100 percent certain the information won’t be used against you later (during an argument) or repeated to others (the second you’ve split).

Personally, I’ve always thought there’s no real point to sharing a fantasy unless you want to act it out because there can be fallout.

But lots of couples do enjoy turning each other on by talking about what arouses them in their imagination.

If the idea appeals to you, go ahead!

But first consider all of the following, before opening your mouth, to ensure both of you aren’t in for any nasty surprises.