While growing in popularity, within relationships anal sex can still be a divisive and delicate subject to broach.
Generally speaking, most men are keen to give it a go while most women are more cautious. Interestingly, gay men also approach their first time with trepidation and the same guy who assured you it wouldn’t hurt one bit suddenly loses enthusiasm if you suggest pegging (putting on a strap-on dildo and penetrating him)!
Once oral sex and intercourse elbow their way into the bedroom, hand-jobs tend to get tossed into the ‘last resort’ basket. But if the only time you wrap your hands around his penis is during oral sex, he’s losing out!
Another reason hand-jobs often find themselves sitting on the bench is that most people (and this includes the men themselves) will just use one tired technique every single time. If you stuck to missionary sex night after night you’d consider yourself in a rut, but when it comes to hand-jobs, for some reason most people are happy to remain unadventurous.
Hand-jobs have untapped potential for giving pleasure, and with the right tips and tricks might just become your man’s new favourite treat!
These six techniques (which originally appeared in my Kama Sutra book) got rave reviews. They say you can never give a man a hand-job better than he can give himself. Grab some water-based lubricant, give these a whirl and prove him wrong!
There’s one simple thing you can do to make sure you and your partner are sexually satisfied for life – and you’d be surprised at how few couples actually do it.
Not that we’re criticising…well, OK, we are.
While we’re all individual and what suits one woman won’t suit another, there are some things that pretty much all women find a huge turn off in bed.
Check you’re not guilty of any of the following guys…