What’s the body part with the highest concentration of nerve endings besides the genitals? Your bottom! Anal play used to be taboo but now lots of sexually adventurous couples are discovering its erotic potential.

While I’m very fond of saying there is no ‘right’ or ‘wrong’ way to have sex, when it comes to anal sex, there really are some crucial rules you need to follow to ensure you’re shooting through the roof with pleasure – not pain.

This guide offers information specifically for first time butt plug users and anal play for beginners.

While growing in popularity, within relationships anal sex can still be a divisive and delicate subject to broach.

Generally speaking, most men are keen to give it a go while most women are more cautious. Interestingly, gay men also approach their first time with trepidation and the same guy who assured you it wouldn’t hurt one bit suddenly loses enthusiasm if you suggest pegging (putting on a strap-on dildo and penetrating him)!