Sharing fantasies requires trust – especially the more ‘out there’ ones.
Not only do you have to hope like hell your partner won’t judge you, you also need to be 100 percent certain the information won’t be used against you later (during an argument) or repeated to others (the second you’ve split).
Personally, I’ve always thought there’s no real point to sharing a fantasy unless you want to act it out because there can be fallout.
But lots of couples do enjoy turning each other on by talking about what arouses them in their imagination.
If the idea appeals to you, go ahead!
But first consider all of the following, before opening your mouth, to ensure both of you aren’t in for any nasty surprises.