If you don’t have time for a prolonged sex session or don’t particularly want one, give in to the oh-so-sweet pleasures of fast, hasty sex of any form.

Done at the right time with the right partner, quickies can be equally, if not more, satisfying than those marathon sex sessions.

The trick is both of you being in the same turned-on mood at the same time.

This is one instance where you can forget everything I’ve told you about spending time on foreplay: the whole appeal of a quickie is that it happens spontaneously and the only foreplay you need is ‘Let’s do it’.

One word of warning though: a quickie quickly turns from erotically exotic to furiously frustrating if it’s the way you have sex every time. 

Having your partner strip for you is a top fantasy for both men and women – but lots of us baulk at fulfilling it.

Why? We’re not only body conscious, we’re worried we’re going to look like a complete idiot.

To ensure this doesn’t happen, I interviewed a London-based dancer and stripper who helped me put together this idiot-proof strip routine for women to follow. (Sorry guys, but if you watch Magic Mike, you’ll find plenty of inspiration!)

It’s tried and tested and gets a BIG thumbs up by straight couples and my gay female friends.

Go on…you know you want to!