Women watch porn.

We might not watch it as much as men do – according to Pornhub, women make up over a fourth of all visitors on the site – but it’s not quite the ‘guy thing’ people make out.

What sort of porn do we watch?

Female taste in porn is as individual as we are. Luckily, there’s so much out there, I defy anyone not to find something they like.

But what if porn bothers you ethically? Or you hate jackhammering and ugly filming?

Try porn that has been directed with less misogyny and more ethics, with sexier stars and far more stylish filming.

Something that’s far less in your face. Literally.

Here’s my guide to what’s worth checking out in erotica and porn (and what to do while you’re watching it with a partner, to avoid that awkward ‘Right, here we are then. What now’ moment).

As the clocks go back and it gets colder and darker, all of us become less adventurous about where we have sex.

The good news is, it’s not just your bed that works in winter.

Here’s a round-up of the most popular places to have sex, to lure you out from under that duvet and back into more adventurous sex.

Only four of these locations rely on good weather, so get to it! And the first doesn’t require any effort at all…