Three simple ways to fix a broken body imageAnother day, another restriction imposed. And for lots of people, this means more nights in,...
Five great sex ‘kits’ to break the lockdown sex slumpPhotograph by Artem Labunsky One in ten of us haven’t had sex since lockdown began...
Sex through the decades: which one is the best?Like most things, sex gets better the more you do it and the more practised...
Energiser, connector, controller or stabiliser. What’s your sex personality?Are you an adventurous 'energiser' or a 'connector' who's more interested in connecting hearts than...
How to talk to your kids and teens about sexNo Shame should be compulsory reading for all parents. It’s – without a doubt –...- What do you do if your husband isn’t interested in sex anymore?Here's my latest video with the fabulous tonic magazine, where I give some workable solutions...
The cool, new sex toys we snapped up during lockdown (and you’ll want now)Some baked cookies and planted herb gardens. Others amused themselves by being a little less...
How to talk to your partner when sex stopsSex stops in relationships for all sorts of reasons. Sometimes, it's a natural break and...
Are your genitals making you unhappy?Image by Dainis Graveris In an ideal world, all of us would feel confident of...
It works for men but can ‘edging’ give women bigger, better orgasms?Image by Emiliano Vittoriosi on Unsplash It’s often used as a technique to teach men to...
These two things are life changers if sex is painful for youThis is the third in a three-part series for women who find sex painful. Part...
How to deal with painful sexThis is the second in a three-part series on how to deal with painful sex....
Why is sex painful for me?This is the first in a three part series on how to deal with painful...
How do I interest my partner in trying anal sex?The original version of this blog is seven years old. The reason why I've bothered...
How to stop your kids killing your sex lifeIt’s ironic that the product of sex – children - threatens the very thing that...
12 ways to make intercourse a whole lot more interestingIt’s not just the favourite part of sex for lots of men, intercourse is often...
Why are the Brits still the most reserved nation of all when it comes to sex?Just when you think times have changed and we're all talking openly and freely about...
Why can I only orgasm using my vibrator?Photo by Yohann LIBOT on unsplash I get asked a variation of this question around...
What’s the best order to follow if I want to explore anal play and anal intercourse?Photograph by Dainis Graveris on SexualAlpha There’s a very good reason why anal play and anal...
Are you doomed if you love your partner more than they love you?This article about unequal love first ran as my column on The MailOnline but I...
What are your options when your partner no longer wants to have sex with you?Sex stops in relationships for all sorts of reasons. But what options do you have,...
How to have a threesomePhotograph by Dainis Graveris on SexualAlpha Of all the things I write about, articles on...
Sex conversation startersIf there's one thing that shocked me when researching my latest book, Great Sex Starts...
20 straight men reveal their biggest sexual turn offsSo, I’m looking through my old MailOnline columns, looking for inspiration for the next, and...
How to have great sex without his penis being the starPhotograph by Dainis Graveris on SexualAlpha Almost all men, at some stage of their life,...
Six things that will make you want more sex in a long-term relationshipHow do I make myself want more sex? It's one of the questions I am...
Here’s me minus a filter: a very candid Mamamia No Filter PodcastI met my fabulous friend Mia Freedman back when we both worked on Cosmopolitan magazine....
Does it matter anymore how many lovers your partner had before you? Here’s the only question you need answered if you’re rating relationship potentialWe’re questioning a lot of things since lockdown and the virus. Which is no bad...
Everything you need to know to make your own sex videoThis originally ran as a topic for my MailOnline column but it's something I'm asked...
How to find a partner post 50Being single post 50 is different than being single in the first half of your...
Does sex actually get better with age? Here’s an honest answerMost of you know I've just released a book about sex in the second act...
The 8 most common reasons we give to get out of sex: which are valid and which are a cop out?No time, bored or simply can’t be bothered? These are just some of the excuses...- Great sex starts at 50! (Yup, STARTS) My brand new book is out today!Today is the publication day of my new book, Great Sex Starts at 50: How...
The 13 things you should never (ever) say in bedTalking about sex is something every couple should do but there are some things that...
I get asked this a lot – and here’s the answerI’ve just had sex for the first time with my new boyfriend and he didn’t...
Superhighs and superglue: how love drugs affect your relationshipSo, what are love drugs? Well, they’re not drugs like coke or MDMA. However fabulous...
8 new, easy things to do in bed (that you maybe haven’t tried before)Happy 2020 everyone! I hope it’s a brilliant year for all of you. January is,...
Want to know how much people masturbate? Of course you do!Guess what? It won’t send you blind after all. New US research suggests the guilt...
Ask me anything: four quirky sex questionsI get asked a LOT of questions. A lot of the same questions, actually! Is...
Foreskin too tight?A tight foreskin isn’t the sort of thing you’re going to mention when you’re at...
What’s the difference between a butt plug and a prostate massager?I've had a few people ask me this, so thought it was worth explaining. (more…)
The day I found out I didn’t have a brain tumourSo, I'm going through my bookshelves and happen upon a book I contributed to a...
Say hello to my new ‘ultra-squishy’ sex toy range: a game-changer for women who find sex uncomfortableMost of you know that, as well as write books and columns, I have two...
4 supersexy things to do with bondage tapeIt sticks to itself, won’t rip off hair or skin, is simple to use, comfy...
How ashamed are you of your most embarrassing sex moment?We’ve all had embarrassing moments in the bedroom – some worse than others. Lots we...
What to do when your partner and friends don’t get onYou book the restaurant and warn the waiter your table’s likely to be the rowdiest...
Hot ways to have long-distance sexToday’s couples have it easy. In the (very, very) old days, if your partner lived...
Hate online dating and hook-up apps? Here’s how to meet a man offlineWhen this book landed on my desk, I thought of at least three or four...
Why jokes about penis size need to stopEver made a joke about the size of a man’s penis? This blog is written...
The Tracey Cox (radio) Show!So, this is more a news item than a blog but I wanted to tell...