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How do I tell my lover what I want without offending them? This is one...

Eye movement studies show we look at different parts of other people's faces depending on...

Want to know what my most popular blogs are about? Anal sex, anal sex -...

We tend to measure our enjoyment of sex in terms of performance. But sexual happiness...

Here’s six things that matter just as much. Giving great oral is part attitude, part...

Whether you want the full shebang with meringue style wedding dress, a live-in love to...

Whether it’s a Tinder hook-up or a long-awaited first night with a potential love of...

To be really, really good at giving oral sex, you have to be a generous...

Kinky sex is coming out of the closet: 84 per cent of us would like...

Want to sort your sex life - fast? This is the second in a series...

It’s an inherently human characteristic to want to share everything with someone we’ve fallen in...

Why you need to dismiss these silly sex assumptions society makes about men that actually...

Question: My new man has told me that he gets off on the idea of...

Question: I am about to go on a holiday with my girlfriends who are all...

Threesomes consistently top the 'Fantasies I'd most like to take through to reality' list for...

As someone who's written about sex for more than three decades (yes, that old!), I...

Use 'touch and tease’ for a series of calculated seduction ploys designed to knock a...

January is a month of reflection - and decisions. If your relationship finished in a...

A new year means a brand new start - and the chance to get rid...

In these sexually politically correct times, it’s a brave man who tried to steal a...

Question: Is it dangerous to have regular anal sex? I’m with the same partner so...

It's all about the situation: he's immune to seeing you naked pre-bedtime, but a flash...

Would you let an electric current flow through your genitals if it felt good or...

Around 20 to 35 per cent of Western couples try anal intercourse, compared to about...

They look innocent enough but these every day items wreak havoc on the average couple’s...

The answer, surprisingly, is yes! Up to 80 percent of women fake orgasms at some...

No other part of the human body is more shrouded in myth and folklore than...

Fifty percent of British women have put off sex - even when they’re in the...

So you liked my post ’50 things I wish I’d known about sex when I...

1. You need access to his testicles, anus and perineum as well as to be...

Ever wish you came with a set of instructions that you could just hand over...

Not that any of us really need to justify indulging in a solo sex session,...

I originally wrote this article for the Mail Online but it was so popular, I’ve...

Question: Is there any way I can persuade my wife to use a vibrator on...

This is the first of a series of blogs designed to transform your love life...

I believe that everyone should be able to enjoy a fun and fulfilling sex life....

We women are wonderful creatures in many, many ways but we are also capable of...

Q:I really want to try using a strap-on dildo on my boyfriend so he can...

Question: My girlfriend has been reading girlie magazines and after reading one article has said...

Just as there are certain sex acts that shouldn't be missed, there are places you...

Anal sex positions can be a lot more imaginative than doing it doggy style. If...

This is a snapshot of what men have told me during the three decades I've...

Is your partner your best friend? It’s ironic: the couples who have the closest, soul-mate...

Want to sort your sex life - fast? This is the fourth in a series...